7 vital principles which we insist on ignoring
A Life / / December 19, 2019
1. Act and not to dream
We often dream to commit any folly. Conquer Everest, run a marathon, a parachute jump, open a business, to travel, to write a book, an album, a movie... You can transfer indefinitely.
Think about the items your wish list. Now answer: why are you still just did not do it? The answer is almost always the same: it's hard. Well, you do not want to upset you, but life and have to be difficult. You must learn this valuable lesson.
Do not avoid the difficulties. Learn how to overcome them.
There is a wonderful saying: and not catch fish from the pond easily. You will not run a marathon if you're not hard to play sports. You do not open a business if you do not invest in this business all itself. Willpower requires quenching nature.
2. avoid negativity
We absorb negative emotions at work, at home, in public transport. People instinctively inclined to the negative. So it seems to us that there are so many lies and injustice.
Do not let a bad mood and character of other people ruin your life. We always try to justify someone else's behavior. "It will change, and all will be well" - was visited by such thoughts? But you know that is not in your power to change a person? He will change only when he wants it. Keep this in mind and do not be negative.
3. Give more than receive
As a child, I am taking care of us by someone else. We received food, shelter, education and, if lucky, a lot of love. Unfortunately, in adult life, some of us take it for granted. We just take, take, take.
We think we have to get everything that we want to. But who said that you have to get a job that you like? Or gain worldwide fame? You no one should.
Do not focus on their desires, and focus on what you can offer to the world in return. Do not be surprised if, following this advice, you will receive even more. By helping others, you help yourself.
4. Appreciate the time
Of all the resources in the world time - the most valuable. So why do we spend it as if extra time is unlimited?
Imagine how much you have left to live in this world. Even if you live to be 80 years old, it is not so much. So do not waste precious time in vain. You can not reverse it.
It is possible to recover the lost money, but lost time - never.
5. Going My Way
We look at other people and put them in his example. Of course, you need to learn from the best and learn from their experience. But do not forget that you are not with them. You - it's you.
However complicated it may be, get off the beaten path and follow his way. Otherwise you will not be able to live life to the fullest.
Do not be afraid to go to an unknown destination. Go where no one before you did not happen. How do you understand? Most likely, people will be puzzled or even start to blame you. So you're on the right track.
6. accept yourself
Life is unpredictable and inexplicable. Why you were born in this family? Why do you live in this city? Life - the eternal "why." And it is unlikely someone can answer all the questions.
Instead of living with the thoughts "But if ...", accept life for what it is. If you're here, it means that there is a reason. God, the universe, invisible forces. Something or someone has brought you into this world. So if life requires something from you, get up and do their part.
7. To live here and now
Living the past, you are hung up on the question of whether, why it happened this way and not otherwise. That makes you unhappy. If you live in the future, you are constantly thinking about what might happen. This entails an unnecessary and unwarranted anxiety.
It is necessary to live in the present. To be here and now.
Why is it so difficult for many of us? There are thousands of reasons that prevent us from living and enjoy the moment.
Remember that life does not stand still. And we can not control everything around. It makes no sense to think of everything that happens in life. Just move forward.