Will the quick goodbye to find love

Layfhaker interviewed those who have already been to these parties, and found out what you qualify.

In 1998, a rabbi in Los Angeles invented speed dating - dating especially for those who are too busy, but still wants to meet his fate. After the first party in Beverly Hills, quick goodbye began to gain popularity around the world literally. And even in Russia, both in large cities and in the provinces.

How it works

Clubs quick visits a lot, and how they work is about the same: is recorded in the appropriate age group pay (on average it costs 700-1 500 rubles), at the appointed time come to the restaurant, where the rapid Goodbye. There you are met by the sweetest manager, who explains the rules of the game.

Most often, girls are sitting at the tables, and every, for example, five minutes after a phone call to them sit down the next man, moving in a circle. Thus an hour you have time to talk to 12 potential partners.

Sometimes the format of the meeting - 2 hours plus a break, sometimes the price includes a glass of wine, sometimes you sit too close to the adjacent pairs, sometimes in the restaurant is too loud music. Such moments can try to find out in advance from the organizers or search for reviews about the companies and locations of meetings (known in advance).

I was annoyed that I hear talk of an adjacent pair. The guy who frankly pasted previous young lady sat next to me and hissed the words between his teeth, looking down. It was a shame.

Alina, 26 years old

More happens that companies offer unusual formats play "Mafia" or try "peepers» (eyes dating): two minutes of silence to watch your partner's eyes. Stand by the way, not all.

Who goes on a quick goodbye

Same as you. :) Those interested who are not afraid of experiments looking for a couple. Positive point: here is unlikely to come to look for a married man having an affair or an adventure for one night. The vast majority of men and women comes with serious intentions.

The bad news: it's basically totally single people, those who can not bring himself to go out with a company in the bar or a concert where can be found with someone, or conducting all the time at work. There are those who come here just for fun.

How to get feedback

At the entrance to all hand kind of check lists, where participants put their counterparts plus or minus, and make small notes about each other. These notes regarding yourself you get to the post office in the same or the next day - terribly useful for those who want to find out what impression the first moments of love.

The letter will contact those with whom your little plus match. At this point decide whether to wait a first step on your "pair" or write (call) themselves.

What if the party bored

Many say that such a volume of communication and new acquaintances is very tedious. For one evening you have 10-20 times the impression to hear the same number of stories about himself, keep the conversation going with strangers.

The saddest thing is when you know in advance that a seat next to you at the table man categorically not "your". And he understands the same thing. And you just sit five minutes and wait for the signal.

Although there is. The saddest thing - this is when all the participants of meeting fast "not yours".

During the evening I had 18 mini-dates, and this is, frankly, very hard emotionally and physically: his mouth hurt so much talk and smile. Therefore polite smile skukozhilas on the sixth-seventh guy and then exhibited in special cases. In the end I was completely exhausted.

Lena, 32 years old

Of course, you can simply get up and leave. And you can take it as a communicative skill to pumping. We will not escalate: here it is possible and to meet the people on the same wavelength with you, and make new pleasant acquaintances, and continue to communicate immediately after fast meeting.

In my eyes a couple at the next table quickly found the overall theme of the professional and arranged for the supply of certain products. They just broke up very pleased with the meeting and, in the evening.

Anton, 32 years old

And above me will not laugh?

Not. No one laughs at those who met at the relevant sites or via mobile applications. The rhythm of life is such that we are forced to look for a soul mate, or to run on the Internet, or release at this time, but with the guarantee that you will be in front of people who have a similar goal. Such a guarantee in general and give quick goodbye.

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