How not to quarrel with your partner over money?
Miscellaneous / / June 14, 2021
Write down expenses, talk, find out what you can save on. Or break up.
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How not to fight with your partner over money?
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Lifehacker came out detailed material about this theme. There are many reasons for quarrels over money, and the ways of resolving conflicts in each case will be different.
If you're worried about your partner spending a lot, start keeping track of expenses. As a result, it may turn out that the partner spends more, because he buys food and household chemicals for the whole family. If you are right, the list of expenses will help you analyze your expenses and find out what you can save on.
If your partner does not earn much, then it is worth remembering that talking is more important in this matter than counting money. Not everyone is born to extract millions and no one is obliged to do this. If your soul mate clearly has no desire to change the situation, take earning money on yourself. Or look for another partner - it makes no sense to re-educate an adult. Better spend that energy on something you get paid for.
If you are fighting for other reasons, read our article at the link above. Most likely, in it you will find your problem and options for solving it.
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