How to stop being a baby and take your life in your hands

Be like children - call for good in the part of the natural behavior and the ability to see the joy and pleasure in the small. But when only the worst is from childhood moods, lack of autonomy and resentment, then the achievement of any goals at all, however.

Let's try to sort out what makes us so wrong child and 18 and 38.

Nagging

Everything goes the way you want, and you got friends and family to their suffering? Now all bad - you shared misfortune. And not it be better to find out what is going wrong, why not, and how can I fix it?

Irritation

Irritation to the eyes of others, perhaps even worse than whining. If you lose your temper - you show all of their inability to cope with the situation, it would be better to learn in time to calm down (count to 10 to begin with).

The requirement of a just peace

Frankly, life is not that the fair thing. Do not demand justice, and try to find a way to use existing rules more effectively.

Evasion of routine

You probably remember as a child did not want to carry my mother's boring errands. But now no one except you will not have to see to it that all around you was in order. Do not throw away the routine - it is the foundation of your accomplishments.

eating sweets

Sweet is not helpful and was a child when you turned the perevozbudilsya little imps, but a fast metabolism allows you to quickly get rid of the consequences. Now, knowing all aspects of malnutrition, you just have to control myself.

The desire to have everything at once

Children have little control inner impulses. They are impatient and hate waiting. In their head does not fit the picture is more or less distant future. Do not repeat it now: you must able to plan and to lose something in the name of the main goal.

Every cent

Almost any kid, smashed the piggy bank, will spend every penny. The children have no idea about the future, and they can not think about how to save money for the purpose, as we have just discussed. But can plan their spending and save you? Try to set aside each pay at least a thousand rubles to start. You will be surprised effect.

Are You Behaving Like a Dumb Little Kid? [Ali]