5 habits of successful people
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
Omniscient dictionaries define the word "habit" as the current model of behavior, which is performed regularly until it becomes almost involuntary. In other words, first you consciously develop their habits, and after a while they are already having its effect on you. That is why the old proverb says: first we create our habits, then our habits create us.
Have you ever seen smokers? First they decide that smoking - it's cool, and literally break down your body, instilling this habit. And after some time, this habit as they grow into that part with it is almost impossible. As a result, it kills its host.
However, this article is not about the dangers of smoking, it's just an example of the negative forces of our habits. But there are also positive examples of habits that can change our lives for the better. Let's see, what habits have helped many wealthy and famous people to become who they have become as a result.
1. Put success above money
Anyone who wants to earn much money. Well, almost any. But it is important that it does not become your main goal in life. In the life of all successful people are always present some superideya to which they are not paying attention to the obstacles. Achieve success in the chosen business, and the money will be a nice bonus to this. Successful person remembers before going to bed is not worth the money earned, and how many and what cases he has made today.
2. Become a fan of self-control and discipline
On all sides we repeat that work should be fun and to be your passion. Yes, ideally, that's how it looks. But in fact, even the pleasant activities tend to become boring and routine duties only cause boredom.
What do you think about this statement of legendary boxer Muhammad Ali (Muhammad Ali)?
Muhammad Ali, the boxerI hated every minute of training, but I said to myself: "Do not go, suffer now and live the rest of his life the champion."
Yes, the road to a selected target is not always a bed of rose petals and sometimes even brings suffering. But every successful man is able to see its global goal and go through difficulties. This behavior requires an enormous capacity for self-discipline and the ability to act in spite of its "do not want".
3. Do not be greedy
You want to be rich and successful? Then you should stay away from greed! This is the main factor that causes people to lose their money. Some people want to get wealth so effortlessly that do not listen to any rational arguments. It is thanks to them that scammers thrive in the financial pyramids and allegedly lotteries. Every day there are people who fall for the next "with exceptional offerings" to turn your $ 100 into 10,000. You must curb greed. You should soberly analyze each business idea and opportunity that occurs in your work, and see both positive and negative properties.
4. value relationship
There is a widespread cliché - a man who has made himself. This is a lie. No man does not live in a closed space, and no one has yet been able to become successful on a desert island. Everything rests on the interaction of people in the world. If you are a manager, you need to build relationships with their subordinates, if the seller - with clients, if the artist - with the public.
You must understand that the most valuable thing in life - it's human relationships, and they lead eventually to the capital, glory and success.
Work on your attitude to people, No matter what rung of the social ladder they occupied.
5. Create rules and follow them
If everyone followed this simple habit, any questions about how to become a successful person, would disappear by themselves. Very often we know what to do, even know how to do it, but... but do not. We sit on a diet, and then breaks down, are recorded in the gym, and then skip, start writing, and then hide the manuscript on the table.
Held and prosperous people are different from others in that they are able to create for himself new rules and strictly follow them. They are able to form their good habits, which result in their success.