Why is it better to keep your problems to yourself

American entrepreneur and motivational speaker Gary Vaynerchuk spoke about why you should not always focused their concerns on the other. The next time you want to complain, think about it.

I am convinced that there are two types of people in the world: those who need to share with others his headache, and those who, to his misfortune, this headache collects.

Speaking of headaches, I mean those little tests, we often encounter and consider them something incredible at this time. customer loss. Torpedo the deal. Quarrel with a loved one. It's tough, but a month has passed and you do not look back. You adapt. Move on.

Therefore, when you share your problems, keep this in mind. Do not think that every time you want to share something, you have to keep it to myself. But be more self-sufficient, and considerate of others. How many times have you poured on someone their own problems, and then regretted it? And how many times is done the others with you?

I am proud that I am able to leave their problems at the threshold of the house for his family. My father did not have this ability, and perhaps why it is so influenced me. At the same time her mother she was, and I am grateful to her for it. She could collect the problems of others. A kind of guardian of the world.

But there is one reason why I separate all this from his family: it is close helped me become who I am, and work so hard. Without love I would be nothing. This wildly disrespectful - to complain about them every time I encounter some problem.

I can not stand the complaint. If you are aware of the problem, you can solve it. What is the point to complain about?

Many times I would come home with a great desire to tell his wife about everything bad that happened during the day. When we could not send a batch of wine in Texas and lost a lot of customers. When not got hold of a very serious client. I felt bad. But as soon as I crossed the threshold, I knew that I wanted to give back to my family for all that she has done for me. And keep their problems to themselves.

I listen to other people. I like to listen to you and to seek solutions to problems. But I have no desire to share with you my difficulties. And I believe that this quality can develop the every man. Listen more than talk. Ask more questions. Remember that everyone has problems. This is where to start, and from here you will only move forward.