Leo Babauta of employed and unemployed motivation to learn
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
To begin with talk about the motivations that are not very good driving force. They have some time will encourage you to achieve results, but, unfortunately, a very short time. At the end of the article, of course, give examples of the motivations that will maintain your enthusiasm for as long as is necessary for learning something new.
Motivation that do not work
big goal
we often force ourselves to move forward, setting himself big hit. And there is nothing wrong. But in the absence of other motivations of this act is no longer in a couple of weeks. Why? Yes, because you do not reach your goal in two weeks, in fact, you are likely to not even practical to approach it. This cools the ardor. Do not be afraid to put a big target, but the path to it something else should support you.
rapid progress Expectation
This I experienced myself, and I'm not alone. We want to achieve impressive results in a short time, and when it does not work, get frustrated and retreat. The harsh truth is that achieving significant results, always takes time. And no matter how we tried to grab a quick piece of knowledge, often need to work for months to get it. Setting yourself up realistic expectations, and even then very little progress will inspire you.
It sounds cool
How many times did you take the call just because they thought how cool would then boast. For example, the fact that you learned another language. But you forget about the hours, weeks and months of practice. You only think about how great it would be to tell your friends and acquaintances, as you yourself pumped. This weak motivation deflate immediately, as soon as you become a bit difficult and tiring to do.
The desire to own ideals
Each of us has a certain concept of what we still need to achieve, to learn, to become the perfect version of himself. We want to be slim, healthy, talented, wise, know several languages and so on. Again, there is nothing wrong with that, but these thoughts can not possibly serve as a strong motivation. That's because once you stop worrying that you are not perfect. Damn, you are so very personal, so why harass themselves and put so much effort?
Okay, we understand that these motivations do not work, but it would be unfair to leave you alone with that information. Therefore, I suggest you return the incentives that will keep you in good shape for a longer time.
Motivation to work
Curiosity
Oh, this is my favorite motivator! When I start to learn something new, curiosity takes me. Of course, it may not be as strong, if it inspires me not too long. But sometimes I want to dive into learning deeper and deeper, until I find out all the details. So now, starting something, I ask myself, as far as I'm curious? Try it too! If something makes you strong and never-ending interest, feel free to get down to studying!
Link to Research
For me, this is not a check mark in the personal list, I reached another goal. Link to research like a curiosity, but I allow myself to take it with a lighter mood. I play, let my curiosity behave somewhere where, and I do not know. And the goal here - actually a discovery. Allow yourself to relax a vice and not to force yourself to learn and enjoy the research process.
Support Partners
I love this method and often call in support of Eve, a friend or one of their children. Fun achieve goals with someone. When one of the pair is losing motivation, the other supports it, and so constantly. And yet I'd like to help others to achieve goals, so there is a double bonus: and he trained, and have fun because I support a companion.
What really worries you
As I mentioned above, we are quite concerned about short-term goals and the creation of large ideal self. So what are we worried, really? This question everyone should ask himself. Surely there is something, what do you remember every day. And I understand that, before reading it, you will not see the rest. If nothing causes these emotions, then it's time you do research.
Prove that you can
true training - this is when you find it hard, you go through the thorns, are mistaken, fall and really want to drop everything. But only if we learn and when we push ourselves forward in the difficult conditions. And if every time we stop half way, then so never learned anything. And the best motivator for me lately - to prove to myself that I can! And so far I have not let myself.