Safe sexting: how to send intimate photos that you do not regret

Sexting - common element of modern flirting frivolous exchange messages and intimate photographs. And if the text messages are relatively safe, that your naked body image can deliver a lot of trouble, when will flow away in the network.

Fully make the process safe photo sharing does not work, but there are ways to reduce the risk that the candid photos will be available to a wider audience.

1. Do not send photos with the face

If one picture can be seen at the same time the face and genitals or breasts is a poor choice for sexting. Addressee can, and want to get everything at once. But here's a better crop the image so that it remained in the elected body. Alternatively, use masks (masks lace best Donald Duck, though certainly there are fans on both).

This rule applies not only to the face but also on the so-called special signs: unusual birthmarks, tattoos and so on.

2. Keep an eye on the background

Choose the most neutral backdrop or, conversely, stylized photo stand for the filming. otherwise design

repairs your apartment, which has flown all the interior magazines of the city, you and displays. Even if you reliably hid his face.

3. Choose a time and place

You send a photo of the naked body, to add fuel to the fire correspondence. But the source is at this moment to show something with colleagues or friends of the phone's screen and automatically click on the message.

Or adjust its messenger meant that the entire message is displayed on the screen of your smartphone even locked. Which he had forgotten on the table and left.

In short, if you do not want to speak with nudity at a broad audience, pre-figured out where the other person is doing.

4. Specify the age of the recipient

If you love to share intimate photos with strangers, try to make sure that an adult companion. Send naked photos child - a bad idea, not only morally but also legallyArticle 135 of the Criminal Code. indecent assault.

5. Make sure that the recipient is ready for this photo

You can use the pictures as a savory element of flirtation, but hardly worth start communicating with them. So you increase the chance that your message will not be forwarded on with comments like, "What do these people all in my head?".

6. dose nudity

For the effective necessarily sexting pictures of genitalia close up. If you add to the image a little more artistic and reduce the open area of ​​the body, it will not be so terrible, that photo will departure to the network.

7. Delete photos after sending

Imagine that you are displaying images mom flipping through photos with a walk from holiday, no panties, again with a walk. It will be unpleasant and uncomfortable. It is not necessary to pump them and to the cloud. The chances that hackers will hack it to your account to be small, if you do not Amanda Seyfried. But you can hook on a tangent.

And certainly do not need to keep intimate photos on your computer and even more to download them to a public company server. And before indignant that no one is doing, talk with friends the system administrators: they will have for you juicy stories.

8. Avoid drunk sexting

Alcohol makes people more daring, so high risk venture that you would never do sober. For example, to decide on the exchange of intimate photos with a stranger, send dikpik instead of "hello" dream girl or break all the rules of safe sexting time.

And yet, when you tipsyIt is easy to make a mistake or the addressee to send explicit images to all the contacts list. In short, the risk is greater than the joy.

9. Use secret chats

Some services offer the ability to send messages, which are automatically deleted after viewing. For example, the secret is in the chat Telegram or Snapchat. But remember that they do not guarantee you absolute safety. In the end, the caller can always take a screenshot.

10. Do not forget about related devices

While you shlote intimate photos with the iPhone, somewhere tinkling notifications iPad. Not the fact that it draws attention to the one who was not supposed to know about the intimate correspondence.

11. Be kept in the texts

If you share a photo with someone else, and so he knows everything about you. But with disorderly sexting better about themselves especially not apply: to present a false name, tell less than the details of the work area where you live and so on.

Remember, too, that the majority of messengers attached to the phone number you easily identify the owner.

12. Remove photo metadata

with a picture file contains information about the place and time of capture device. At a minimum, remove your location. Layfhaker I wrote, how to do it.

13. Do not succumb to the entreaties

Intimacy - is an area where it is particularly important to stay in the comfort zone. Therefore, if you do not see yourself as a role model in the nude, refuse, it is your right. Reluctance to send nudity does not mean that you do something wrong - you're all right.

14. Before you send a photo, think about why this is necessary

When you are driven by a burning desire to send intimate photos - this one. But if the person asks furiously, requires begging such images without prior communication, a sober assessment of what it could mean for you.

There are entire interest groups who seek intimate photos to share them in the city of public or special interest groups haters. Perhaps the person has decided to blackmail you. In short, before you take pictures of ass, turn your head.

15. Be ready for anything

This advice could sound like "submit photos only with people you trust." But people change, and the man in whom you were confident yesterday, tomorrow can make a spam e-mail your photos across the contacts list to get revenge. Therefore, sending intimate pictures, remember that sooner or later they can be made public.