10 signs that you have met your soul mate
Relations / / December 19, 2019
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1. It seems that you are familiar ages
Have you recently met, but it seems like you know each other almost from birth. Some details of your lives are so similar that it seems as if you had grown up together. Views on the important things are the same. And it gives a feeling of comfort and intimacy.
2. You understand each other
Most often you without clarifying questions it is clear that people want to say. Most romantic or friendly relations system of gestures and symbols appear over the years, this contributes to the close contact. But some come into our lives already prepared and correctly interpret what we want to convey. And it's all very easy, since it is not necessary to waste time on explanations.
However, no one should not expect sessions of telepathy.
If you need something, say so. So much better than we expect from human achievements, and then be offended that he did not understand you.
3. The differences did not quarrel you, and develop
Even twins with all resemblance is very different in nature. What to expect from others, in fact, people. Naturally, you have to diametrically different qualities. But by itself it turns out that you do not use them as an excuse for quarreling. The differences in the character and behavior allow you to learn from each other, making each of you perfectly.
4. you empathize
"However, in sorrow and in joy" - not just empty words, this formula works, and love, and friendship. Empathic person can understand what feels familiar in trouble. And the pain is really a loved one is experienced as his own.
5. Brings you joy
If everything is clear with the grief, then with joy usually the situation is not so straightforward. Sympathize with someone is quite simple, but the share moments of happiness is more difficult. If you are truly capable of it, and not jealous, not to turn each other in achieving the element of competition, do not discount other people's success, and this mutually, such relations are expensive.
6. You can be yourself
Usually when meeting a person wants to look better than it actually is. Their quirks and eccentricities we reserve for those with whom you are getting closer. Although in this case, is not revealed until the end.
This is a safety issue: showing himself with unusual hand, a person may face ridicule, reproaches, or insults, which is very unpleasant. With kindred spirits, we feel so relaxed that we are not afraid to be themselves.
7. You easily reconciled with each other's shortcomings
The relations can be approached with a different yardstick. Most often they are usually assessed from the perspective of how many people are investing in them, what they do, how ready to change.
But it can be approached from the other side: among your loved ones are always people who enrage less than the rest. You can easily get along in the same area, your habits do not contradict each other, and the idea that you would be better to lonelinessVirtually no flicker. Do not underestimate these people.
8. You together because you want this
The main thing that connects you - the desire to be near, and not the external circumstances. If we subtract from the equation together mortgage, General business or any other commitments, you still have to communicate, and not better and not worse than it is now.
9. Your quarrel is not end of the world
You, like everyone else, to argue and quarrel, but quickly reconciled. Firstly, you cherish each other enough to prevent contradictions destroy relationships. Secondly, you recognize each other the right to different opinions. Third, even in the heat of an argument, you hold back from shocks in the most sensitive pressure points.
With this clarification of the relationship does not end with cracks in them, you just step over conflict and goes further.
10. You just know that it is he / she
Sound is subjective, but is the concept of "soul mate" has to do with facts and logic? If you look at someone and see in it a reliable comrade, without which you would not be where I am, other proofs are not needed.
In your life there is a person whom you are ready to call a soul mate?
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