In today's world, which is located at the peak of extraversion and openness in all areas of life, introverts have a harder time.
Introverts - they are different. Someone found them closed, and someone - a hermit. Many people simply do not pay attention to them, believing that introverts are deprived of something important. In fact, you just do not understand them. Introverts have decided to announce some facts about yourself that will help them to interact mutually comfortable. And reduce resentment extroverts - it's not you upset man, just everything is as it should be.
1. We do not expect your birthday
Days colleagues birth - is not what we are looking forward to. In fact, we do not care about personal human holiday, we almost do not know. Of course, we congratulate you with the rest of the staff, but do not linger on the "celebration." As soon as possible we will leave, as well as any other similar event.
2. We do not want a party on our birthday
Similarly, we do not need corporate events in our birthday. We do not love lush party with dozens of unfamiliar people, who have no case. Most of us do not arrange loud parties, but simply enjoy a pleasant evening in the circle of the closest people, carefully selected for such a personal event.
3. We are not interested in how you spent the weekend
If you do not belong to the circle of close friends, we do not care what you did last weekend. We believe that everyone has the right to privacy. Only he decides how to spend it. If you decide to find out the relationship with the former or a drink in another club, we will not judge you. If we work together, it does not mean that we want to know you better. Delving into your life, we spend a lot of energy.
4. We hate the crowd
Large crowds of people quickly tire us. We tend to empathySo very quickly get tired of the activity that prevails around us.
5. We do not like corporate events
On them we have to play the role of an attentive listener and a good company to build relationships with people who do not know and to which we have no concern. Therefore, we must diligently prepare for such events, making a huge effort over. This is not the place where we are able to relax and enjoy the evening.
6. We have to pretend we like you
We know who we really like, and who - no. In this we are not different from other people. Furthermore, we prefer honesty feigned friendliness, but sometimes just have to pretend to be courteous and welcoming to survive.
7. We know what to do
We do plan your schedule: fill out a personal project time, meetings, work on new ideas. We appreciate the solitude, because at this time we create things that can change not only our, but also your life.
8. We prefer to write
Most introverts prefer to communicate in writing rather than orally. So we are much easier to express their thoughts and concentrate on the subject, because we have no one interrupts. Distractions during oral negotiations force us to expend more energy. It is much easier to write e-mail - it is better for us and for you.
9. We feel safe with the right people
When we are surrounded by "our" people, we are capable of anything. We achieve the best results in work, hobbies, and stand solidly for those we love. Close propels us with energy and help to move forward.
10. We are not alone, we have friends
We are not social phobia. If there is one introvert, it means that he consciously chose him, and one knows about it. We can meet and get acquainted with new people, but you need to try very much to be our friend.
11. We can do the work of extroverts
If necessary, introverts as well as extroverts can organize and hold a public event, a speech or play the role of "the soul of the company" at a party. Many examples of this can be found in the book "Introverts. How to use the features of his character "So that, for sure we are capable. We just need more time to regain your strength and do it again. We ask you not to abuse
12. We're not shy, rude or alarmed
At the first contact may have the impression that we are evil. But if you know us better, you will see that we are able to make you laugh and maintain an interesting conversation lasting longer than 15 minutes.
13. We feel good being alone
We love to be alone with our thoughts, and in contrast to the extroverted colleagues, we do not need other people to feel the joy and the creative impulse. We have enough own energy to work and come up with something new. If necessary, we are come for help and ask for advice. We love the solitude, and that's fine.
14. We hate small talk
We like to touch on is really meaningful topics to negotiate new ideas and opportunities. But we hate small talks, which have no meaning. We believe that time spent going nowhere and rarely feel comfortable in small talk. In most cases we are just bored.
15. We have decided to be with you. appreciate it
We protect our own time and space, and therefore indulges in it is far from all. Often we attract extraverts, as they feed on our energy. We are looking for like-minded introverts to communicate and create something new. We respect our time and the boundaries of each other without affecting the personal space of others. If we are, then you're in luck.
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