10 things you should not do the happy couple
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Happiness in a relationship does not depend on luck and chance. This daily work. If you do not do these things, you will be able to maintain long lasting relationships.
1. Complaining to partner with friends and family
Wash dirty linen in public is not only unhealthy, but also completely useless. Tomorrow you make peace and change the opinion and impression about your satellite or companion will be permanently ruined. Instead complaints friends talk to each other, ask questions disturbing you. Friends need for the soul, joy and relaxation. As for the family, in any case they will be on your side.
2. Compare yourself with other couples
Love each other as you are. Compare themselves and partner with other unreasonable and unfair. Even more unwise to express their thoughts and comparisons aloud. Nothing good you will gain. On someone else's lawn grass will always look greener, even if in fact there has long lawn dry.
At the other extreme - to compare themselves with the famous pair. Many stars are only pretending that happily married. For them, this is a business and nothing personal. Live your life and do not compare themselves with their neighbors on the landing, with no stars Instagram.
3. Play sacrifice
Adults who enter into a relationship and occupy a certain position in the pair knowingly. If you have no one forcibly dragged to the registrar or forced to meet, do not play with him sacrifice and do not blame the partner for the problems. Look for solutions and fight with difficulties instead of blaming the partner for the situation.
4. Being too serious
Happy family life - this is not a test of strength, not a matter of life and death. Loving people can make fun of each other with a smile and accept the difficulties that sometimes throws life. In the end, they have each other, so there is strength to cope with any troubles.
5. Criticize
Each has good and bad. Happy couples know that the criticism destroys relationships and kills love. If you do not like something, politely tell about their feelings and explain exactly what and why you dislike.
6. Ignore the money topic
The issue of money can break the strongest relationship. Happy couples are open in financial matters, they understand their needs, goals and see jointly discuss the future. There was no hesitation about the money should not be. It's your money and your future. In your best interest to make it secure.
7. Play clairvoyants
Happy couples know that communication - the basis of healthy relationships. For happiness does not need a magic ball and the ability to read thoughts. Quite openly and without mysteries to talk about their feelings, experiences, worries and hopes. Yes, if in a relationship you do not get enough attention or affection - just say so.
8. Go too far
Share emotions and experiences - it's good. But to throw out all the negativity and stress on a partner is not necessary. You will feel better, but do not have a partner, especially if he was not mentally prepared for the release of emotions. I would like to talk about? Ask whether the right moment is now. If not, look for other forms of expression and the removal of the negative, such as writing letters.
9. Cling to the role
On the first date, you said that love cooking, and ever since have not come out of the kitchen, because yours entrenched role of the chef? Happy couples have a flexible mind and not cling to specific roles. Who is free, he is preparing dinner, the store comes to the one who had returned from work. In this case, no hard feelings, anger and negativity. It happens.
10. Quibble over trifles
Happy relationship - is primarily a moral support and participation. Life and so full of stress and negativity. If the second half of the problem, eg temporarily No workNot find fault, try not to cut and try to inspire love. Your faith motivates more than anything else.