15 things you should not talk to people with depression

On Reddit user OurMemeGulag I asked readers suffering depression, Remember the most foolish and hurtful words that they heard - so that others do not repeat the same mistakes. Here is a selection of phrases that are best left to himself, when the loved one is suffering from this disease.

«It's all in your head». Thank you, Sherlock, I thought that in my depression kidneyNow I definitely became easier to live!

Mizamagician

«Many people are even worse than you». This is not the best advice, because I feel even worse - paradoxically, because of the fact that I true badly. In addition, you start to get upset, and for other people, too.

Duck-Yo-Couch

— «You have a great life. You should be thankful for what you have, and look at the positive things». After half an hour, he told how his life is as good as mine, but for some reason he is not depressed.

- Yeah, thanks, that added to my depression and more guilt.

Fake_DM and DaughterOfNone

— «No one likes to be close to the depressed person»

- Every time I want to say, "Believe me, I know: I have something with myself I am constantly '

Bumblebees123 and OriVandewalle

«Why pay a therapist, if you can just talk to your family?"They seem to have in mind the very family that immediately tells all around on every thing, which I share with them? Thank you, I'd rather continue to pay the person who by law can not tell anyone anything.

HagithaChristie69

«If I knew that you have such mental problems, I would not have a child from you»

PNWJON

«Do not talk to him, he has depression"- I said one of my other colleague, when I was around the corner from them. It was a few days after we had a conversation heart to heart, and I confessed to their problems. I do not talk to her, and she wonders why would it.

krypto-pscyco-chimp

«Come on, pull yourself together. People are already starting to talk about you all"- said my ex-wife. At that time, I was planning to commit suicide.

unreliablemory

«Obviously, not so much, and you are depressed - you are quite normal talking and smiling». I said that a psychiatrist who saw me for the first time.

midnightblue33

— «Just do not think about it, bro»

- It's like talking to a cancer patient, "Just do not die, bro"

ImpSong and ballinskary

«I do not understand why you depressuesh. You're cute»

BlondeSummers

«Are you depressed? Then there can not be carried out on the phone so much time?»

blosserraptor

My former best friend in all seriousness said "Grow has finally"When I was borderline suicidal-depressive disorder. I have not talked to him since that day.

OldFatBaldingPunk

«You're a smart guy, you think of something"- I prayed for help. It's not a question crazy or stupidity. I could not even banal brush your teeth, and you tell me that the logic of help here? Really it is not clear that the person pereprobuet everything in the world, before finally humiliated and recognize loved ones, that are not able to perform even the simplest daily tasks?

tehmlem

«You do not get better from talking with people from the Internet that you do not even know». Here are just some reason, they helped me when the "real" people did not care.

RandomDucc