14 subtle signs you're in a healthy relationship

1. You are comfortable when you are silent alone with each other. — kmm91162

2. If you both hate some household chores, you do it together. My ex-husband just hated folding dried laundry, as I did. But it had to be done - so we always did it together. This makes the matter less unpleasant. — AlfalfaFloozy

3. It doesn't matter how angry you are at a loved one at a particular moment - you will still make every effort to help if he needs it. I may be pissed as hell, but I will aggressively cook my wife her favorite dinner even if I don’t want to eat myself. No matter how annoyed we are (it usually doesn't last long, but everyone has it), we never try to sabotage our relationship or try to turn it into a lesson for each other. As a rule, everything ends with mutual apologies. Arguments and irritations are inevitable in any relationship, but what separates a healthy relationship from a toxic one is how both partners behave in the process. — kamikaziboarder

4. Support in reaching each other's goals, even if it means you will have to take some time meet at a distance, or your work schedules will not match, or any other obstacles that may appear in your relationship because of this decision. You will not deter the person from achieving his dream and help him achieve it if possible. — averagehonesthuman

5. When you are driving somewhere for a long time and sitting behind the wheel, and your partner from time to time feeds you or gives you coffee through a straw, so that you can recuperate without being distracted from the road. I think this is a very simple and at the same time cute gesture. — Kekitron

6. Knowing that you can talk about something that could escalate into an argument - and don't be afraid that it will end your relationship. It’s a very healthy thing to understand that you don’t agree with your partner on everything, discuss these things and resolve conflicts without feeling that everything is at stake. — raccoons4president

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7. When a partner takes criticism from you seriously, rather than immediately trying to turn it in your direction. If this can be said about both of you, such a relationship has every chance of lasting a long time. — SqueakyCleanNoseDown

8. You like the person you become in this relationship. We behave differently around different people, and if you don't like the way you behave around your loved one, most likely you have something to work on. The loved one should transform you into the best version of yourself. — crasher35

9. The ability to hear, not just listen. Comment on what you are saying, give advice if needed, and generally be involved in the conversation. Bonus: the same ability, but during an argument. When a person is trying not to win, but to understand the problem. — uncanny_grapefruit

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10. You remember and respect each other's tastes and allergies. — EPresage

11. When your partner remembers little things and does something for you that you didn't even ask for. For example, I like to eat with a small fork, not a regular fork (it seems like a fork for fruit or cake). And when we set the table, my boyfriend never forgets to put the right fork next to my plate. — SerenityFate

12. You recommend a book, movie or TV series - and the person actually reads or watches it. — -eDgAR-

13. It's about the little things you do to please each other without expecting or demanding anything in return. A couple of months ago, I had a terrible day, I wrote to my boyfriend in general terms what had happened, and he said to stop by after work. I arrive, open the door, and my dog ​​jumps on me. He agreed with my parents to pick up my dog, because he felt that it would please me, and told me to go to the sofa and hug her while he cooks dinner for us. Then I realized that this is my man. — aaronburrsir1800

14. When a person tries to make time for you. Let's say I have a super busy schedule. I can still find 10 seconds to reply to a message. Obviously, I still need to eat, and I can invite you to dine together. I can call while I'm driving somewhere. It kills me when people use “I was too busy” as an argument. So you're not even trying to find a few seconds to focus on your relationship? At the same time, we all know that you take your phone with you even to the toilet. — legagneur

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