The correct way to follow a dream

Achieve their dreams is not easy. It must be remembered that the only way to do it - forget about everything else. And even if it does not scare you, below we will tell you what to do.

Our brain resembles a ball filled with bees. Thousands of thoughts and they scatter in different directions. For which of them to follow? For everyone. We arranged in such a way that we want most. We both want to become a millionaire, learn 10 languages ​​and eat pizza. That's just whether it is right?

Imagine that our thoughts and desires - it's the bees that are pushing the ball (ie, us) in all directions.

And the ball just goes on. He would like to move in the direction of the dream, but something always interferes. The pizza, the series, the friends.

And most people live.

We are constantly in conflict, and we never have enough time to follow his dream.

Let's change it!

Curse of a great idea

Imagine that you're back on 20 years in the past and are ready to create a Google, Facebook or Vkontakte when more of them, no one thought. You have in mind there are 3 ideas that could bring billions, and you know it. But if you chase all three, you will not achieve anything.

That's why many of us never reach their dreams. After moving in 3 directions, you will pass much smaller than moving in one of them.

As people reach the impossible

Imagine an absolutely incredible goal. For example, to write a book about his life or to go to Mars. If you want to an inability to do so, if your life revolves only around it, that you will take? You lose interest in everything else. You will become a big bee, which pushes the ball in the right direction. Only forward, to Mars, without turning.

Maniacal desire to get things done - is the key to success. This pattern can be traced in all the geniuses from Einstein and ending Musk. Ability to focus on one goal - this is what determines the ultimate success.

Many people are defeated not because of lack of capacity, but because of the number of different ways in which they spend their time and energy.

How to Train a swarm of bees

You always You will want more than you have. But realizing that the movement in the same direction - is the key to success, you can do something about it to change:

1. Put big goals. Move to the big goal is easier than to low, as paradoxical as it may sound. Since moving to a big goal, you ignore everything else.
2. Divide life into three parts. For example, work, home and weekend. Each part should have one big goal. Not more.
3. Postpone unnecessary. Zuckerberg I was smart enough to first create a Facebook, and only then to teach the Chinese language.
4. Beware desires. As I said, you will always want everything and more. Control yourself. Each new goal will be to increase the time to achieve the principal.
5. Monitor their bees. Perhaps you do not make the new Google, can land on Mars, will not be a rock star worldwide. But you can be, for example, healthy and athletic director. Success and sports - are complementary goals. A healthy and sporty person, the best leader. Imagine two bees that push the ball in the same direction. This success and the sport.

People who have reached the goal of his life did so due to the fact that it is not distracted by anything else. Do not be afraid that life would be less interesting.

If you find a favorite thing, the time devoted to it, will be your most desired and carried out in pleasure. Put serious goals, monitor their bees, and say "no" to all the other goals. It is not easy, but now you at least know the price of your dream.