Why we do not like fat people
A Life / / December 19, 2019
In Dinka living in South Sudan, there is an interesting custom. During the four months of tribal men eat everything that comes their way, to grow fat, and try to move as little as possible to avoid wasting calories. Four months later, the competition is held. Fattest man wins and becomes the hero of the tribe for the rest of his life. If you are not a member of the Dinka tribe, then you know that all the other people are fat anyway. And the ratio ranges from neutral to negative. We decided to find out why this is so.
Ooh, you have acne? And you did not try to lose some weight? You threw the girl? Maybe it's because of your weight?
If your weight is higher than normal, be ready sooner or later hear caustic comment on this matter. And better sooner, because then you can just get rid of the people that put your body constitution above human qualities.
The only problem is that most of these people. We are obsessed with appearance and always pay attention to a person's weight. Although someone does not give it much importance, not all have enough tact not to mention the title aloud. Why do we treat fat people?
Complete people spared themselves
And who like miserable people? You have heard the phrase, "I have lost weight, but I have a bad hormones" or "I would have signed up for the gym, but I have a job." These excuses and self-pity leads to the fact that you no longer have compassion and respect others. Especially those who went through weight loss and I realized that it was not so difficult.
With fat people uncomfortable
In the United States a well-developed infrastructure for fat people. For example, individual chairs or seats in transport.
But if next to you on a plane or bus to sit really fat man, you will remember this article. And here you are already in an awkward situation: on the one hand, you are sorely lacking space, and on the other hand, the statement that you are not comfortable, do not make the folds of fat less than your neighbor, but obviously it It hurts.
They blame everyone in its entirety
Manufacturers of fast food, gyms that charge for visiting a lot of money, people who forge a proper diet and a beautiful figure in a cult, "not paying attention to the inner world of man." In fact, it all depends on what you put in your mouth. And if you do not want to consider trying to surround your inner peace under the folds of fat, it is best to put in the mouth proper meal.
We subconsciously believe fat people lethargic and passive
Fat people are healthy only for a while. This proved research. It seems to us that the fullness is contrary to sports and an active lifestyle, and this is indeed the case. Therefore, we subconsciously think of fat people less active and interesting. While you certainly can immediately name a few familiar people, which does not interfere with the fullness of life to enjoy.
Should not be taken as the only criterion for the completeness of human evaluation. Be sure people already know what they look like from the outside, and too much a reminder to you is unlikely to change their lives. Think better about this:
If you can not communicate normally with a complete man, the problem may be in you, not in it?