What does your sleeping position couples
A Life / / December 19, 2019
The human condition in a dream He can tell you about the many features of his character. For example, if you sleep on your back, it often means the confidence and strength, and if you rest on your stomach - an open, outgoing and cheerful personality warehouse.
Even more interesting to watch, as the bed there are two personalities. In the dream, the subconscious mind controls your behavior, so the body language becomes a surprisingly accurate indicator of what is happening inside the peacefully snoring couples. Hence the keen interest of the scientific world to the positions of people during co-sleeping. A lot of psychologists to study the problems, with the result that scientists have identified 10 of the most common positions.
close courtship
According to a study conducted by psychologist Corinne Sweet (Corrine Sweet), such a position is found in approximately 18% of couples. She talks about the dynamic development of relations in which one of the partners of the other guards. Despite the fact that it seems pretty nice, and the situation can hide a little rude.
Patti Wood (Patti Wood), an expert in the field of body language with thirty years of experience, he adds: "This is a very vulnerable position with sexual overtones. It openly declares that your spouse is completely trusts you. "
free courtship
Usually, young couples love to cuddle each other in bed, but as soon as relationships mature, hugs fortress weakens. Patti Wood notes that it's the same embrace with a high level of confidence, but with less sexual undertones.
Ultimately the free hugs come all the people whose relationship can be called well-established. Partners simply return to the positions that give them the best quality of sleep.
obsessive courtship
A situation in which one partner moves to the edge of the bed, and the other follows him is a bit like the chase. Such movement may be interpreted differently. First, a man who "chase", wants it so because of lack of attention or as part of foreplay. Another meaning of "runaway" behavior Dankell sees Samuel (Samuel Dunkell). According to the writer, in this case, it is "unauthorized courtship" - the partner moves in the search space.
tangle
Extremely strong and quite rare plexus found in pairs, where strong emotions are boiling, for example, after lovemaking or at the beginning of a romantic relationship. Although someone manages to keep it for a long time, which is not necessarily a good thing. According to the American psychotherapist Elizabeth Flynn Campbell (Elizabeth Flynn Campbell), the partners may be too dependent on each other to sleep separately.
weakened node
Halves fall asleep, his face pressed close to the face, and after 10 minutes diverge for a short distance. This position - a sign of even closer relationship than a full merger. Probably, this is why only 8% steam in a rest position. This is an excellent compromise between closeness and independence for both.
admirers of freedom
Do not worry if you sleep at a distance, his back turned to each other. Leave fears that there's anything wrong with that. According to psychologist Corinne Sweet (Corrine Sweet), as the pair shows its close relationship and independence. And the situation is very common - 27% of cases.
kiss backs
Touching the back or buttocks during sleep - a good sign healthy relationships. Partners are relaxed, they feel comfortable in their alliance. Position is most often observed among those who have just met each other, or is in a relationship less than a year.
cozy shoulder
The position in which the pair crosses his legs, and the head of one partner lies on the chest of another, can be seen in early relationships or degeneration. This nurturing attitude creates a sense of security. The psychologist Shirley Glass (Shirley Glass) also notes the high level of trust, feelings and elbow protection.
woven legs
According to scientists, flirting and flirting in bed, accompanied by weaving legs, she speaks about the thirst of emotional or sexual relationship. feet touch - it is also a sign that all the partners simply can not get enough of the senses, even in a dream. The fate of people are connected so that they live as a single body, complementing and caring about each other.
Sweeping "peacock"
Sometimes one partner assumes the pose of the starfish, and speaking in an amicable way, collapsing on the bed as the arrogant pig. It is obvious that one person is dominant, while the other takes a secondary position. But most people do not want to be second fiddle! Degree of selfishness rolls, because of which half have to literally hang over the edge of the bed. If such inconveniences occur in your life - heart to heart talk time is ripe!
Distinguish between "soldier" from the "General" in bed you can and head position. The man who lies closer to the back of the bed, tend to feel confident and dominant. Those who places his head away from the back, tend to be more obedient and have lower self-esteem. If the heads are close by, it means the equality of people. Even better, if the head contact - so the minds of the partners on the same wavelength.