Why does the gloomy people make good leaders
A Life / / December 19, 2019
Laconic and seemingly bleak, people often have some inexplicable magnetism, as if they know some secret, holding that they can no longer look at the world with a smile and wonder. Is it because of them come great leaders?
Why are skeptics so love to grumble, but we still can not help listening to their opinion? Because we know: grumblers are not so easy to cheat.
In a sense, they are a lot of benefits by sharing with others their wisdom and life experience. Negative - this is not necessarily a weakness and not a sign that a person - flint and incapable of compassion. In fact, it is quite usual reaction to different events.
Both history and psychology knows many examples showing that the real, sometimes even a pessimistic view of things - a distinctive feature of many famous world leaders.
Negativity will put everything in places
Some studies show that the pessimistic, gloomy people are more convincing and tend to quickly find a common language to communicate.
Joe Forgas (Joe Forgas), a professor of social psychology at the University of New South Wales Australia, established in the course of his experiment: gloomy, people tend to cope better with stressful situations.
Study participants were shown Forgas funny and sad movies to influence their current mood. Then the subjects were asked to evaluate the plausibility of some stories, supposedly one really happened. It was found that those whose spirits have been worse, showed the best results in the performance of tasks.
Other studies have allowed scholars to do similar conclusions. Kate Harkness (Kate Harkness), Psychology at the Department of Queen's University Belfast, said: people tend to see life in dark tones, attentive to detail and better capture changes in facial expressions.
On this basis, we can assume that is not in the best frame of mind, we become more focused and thoughtful, able to cope with a wide range of tasks.
If we look at history, we can find examples of such individuals among the prominent leaders of different periods.
On the dark side of the great of this world
Get at least a Churchill or Lincoln. Both figure often were in a bad mood, and suffered from depression. In this case, the severity did not interfere with their managerial abilities. On the contrary, it is precisely this feature is an additional source of strength and help in solving the most important issues in the history of mankind.
Churchill often experiencing negative emotions, especially in the evenings. His desperate longing leader himself jokingly called the black dog, his constant companion. However, he did not struggle with depression: she gave Churchill the wisdom and determination that were necessary to him as a leader during the Second World War. One of the well-known British politician statements reads:
Winston ChurchillA pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity.
Similar problems were noted with the mood and the Abraham Lincoln, which is nipped in the bud any attempt to dark thoughts take possession of his mind and influence the process acceptance of the important decisions.
Lincoln was the one who was able to prevent the collapse of the United States and made a significant contribution to the history of advocating for the abolition of slavery and the need for the country's development. Despite its strong melancholy, he was distinguished by excellent sense of humor and was always considered one of the most intelligent president.
Here is what they write about it in The Atlantic, one of the oldest literary magazines of America:
Lincoln depression tormented his soul, but a continuous struggle with it helped him to develop the important qualities of a strong spirit of the people. His amazing character helped him to remain calm and determination throughout his career.
Many scholars are inclined to believe gloom sign of mental disorder. A person can be a little gloomy as a whole, and it is most often normal, but this condition can also be caused by health problems. Joe Forgas explains: "To the best of a bad mood can help mobilize a critical situation. On the other hand, when the sense of insecurity grows into a prolonged depression, we may be faced with serious problems, to cope with which will not be so easy. "
In our life balance should be respected in all - this is a mandatory rule, if you want to be happy. And if their own forces suddenly is not enough, there is nothing wrong to turn to someone for help. In the end, everyone has the right to be funny, sad, depressed - what's the difference?
Both science and many years of practice show that negative emotions and feelings helps us to better adapt to the outside world, making us more resolute and prudent.
Nahmurte eyebrows, as if you were Winston Churchill. Stroke his beard as Lincoln. And think a little about life - it needs to go in your favor.