25 things that only understand introverts

1. You do not get out of the apartment, while a neighbor will not go away

Situation: you hear in the hallway or the neighbor opens the door on the landing. To once again not to interfere with the person you tail off and wait until it will not go away. Yes, it's weird, but sometimes introverts hide from even the most lovely people, just to avoid having to exchange a few words with them.

2. You secretly rejoice that friends canceled a meeting

To avoid being branded as a hermit, it is sometimes necessary to get out to meet friends. But when the general plans are canceled, in the shower, you rejoice: you can stay at home and do not build from a sociable type.

3. You uncomfortable feeling at the party

Despite the dislike of the noisy companies, there are measures to avoid that will not work: corporate, wedding or New Year's girlfriend tableful with relatives. The first thing that you visit at any meeting: "What am I doing here ?!"

4. Internet for you is not just a hobby, but a lifestyle

With the formulation of thoughts on paper in introverts much easier

An asymmetrical relationship between verbal and visual thinking: Converging evidence from behavior and fMRIThan to talk. You find it difficult to talk in person, but in the social networks you feel like a fish in water. The online correspondence and can be a joke, and the mind to shine, and labels leave a comment.

5. You shy away from the sales consultants at shopping time

This is understandable: it is easier to find the right model and size, than carry on a conversation with a stranger.

6. You try to be inconspicuous

You are not against dialogue, just not always ready to talk: it requires a spirit and energy. To be less tired, introverts unconsciously limit themselves in communication, and to replenish energy - spend time alone.

In life, it is shown like this: you have to get something from the fridge, but this time in the kitchen sits your neighbor with a friend or parent with guests. Exit - to behave like that guy from SIFCO:

7. Rather noisy company you choose loneliness

You are invited to spend the weekend together, and you say that you are very busy. Everyone understands that this is not so in fact you stay at home and enjoy the solitude. For introverts is the normSusan Cain: The power of introvertsThey are in no hurry to party and are able to enjoy the time spent alone.

8. You answer questions in monosyllables

On the question "What's New" and "How are you?" You are trying to answer as briefly as possible, so that, God forbid, struck up a conversation. Small talk about anything easily are extroverts and introverts such conversations do not like the formatEavesdropping on Happiness: Well-Being Is Related to Having Less Small Talk and More Substantive Conversations.

9. You try to quietly leave the party

And trying to do it as soon as possible. You have left an escape plan, and for that you get to a meeting in his car. This is especially true of parties, which previously did not want to go.

10. You rarely answer the phone

Calls from unknown numbers you you do not respond by default, and the conversation with a friend or colleague prefer correspondence.

11. I enjoy going to the cinema single

Do you like to watch the film alone or with a loved one. Daytime sessions on weekdays, morning sessions at the weekend - you are trying to choose the time when Hall practically empty. Together with you in the hall More 2-3 people - such as introverts, avoid large gatherings of people.

12. You pretend not to notice the familiar

The situation: after work you went to the grocery store. All goes well until between rows of buckwheat and pasta you do not notice the familiar. Your standard reaction - to turn away and leave quickly, as he did not see you.

13. Never open the door, if not waiting for guests

What for? Little did too friendly neighbor came over with salt and will have 15 minutes to complain to the management company or the manager of an Internet company hauntingly asks you to connect them to the new tariff.

14. Are you afraid to be alone with strangers

Support conversation a man whom you see first? Never! Here is how you look when your friends leave you alone at their acquaintances a few minutes:

15. You never order something on the phone, if you can online

Why call when you can write?

16. You do not know how to behave when people sing you a song "Happy birthday to you!"

Surrounded by people you feel awkward and uncomfortable. Birthday becomes extreme torture: speak with you more than usual and focus too much on. I want to hide under the table or run away!

17. Trying to solve business issues through correspondence

While colleagues annoy you a phone call, you prefer to solve everything by correspondence. Jobs openspeyse becomes a real tragedy: noise and the people around paralyze your work. "Please, you can stay in a quiet place?" - you think in a particularly difficult days.

18. Love not hold a conversation with a stranger

Do you regret that you can not be the invisible man, when someone in the bar or on the plane begins to chat with you. "Do not get me the conversation simply because we're sitting next to," - mentally you say to his companion. It's not that introverts do not like people and live chat. They just are not ready to hold a conversation with a stranger: it causes terrible discomfort.

19. To have a perfect day at the beach - the day on a completely empty beach

Such thoughts arise periodically in any person, especially when the beach is crowded and calm can only swim 50 meters from the shore. But introverts such a desire appears more frequently: the empty beach to their default comfortable than crowded.

20. Do you like to train alone

You hate personal trainers, group lessons and fans talk during sports, because training time - this is your personal time. No joint and jogging jokes with the coach in the gym - why, when you can be alone with your thoughts and listen to your favorite tracks?

21. You do not respond to the message now

Before you write the answer, you need to consider the content of the letter. Sometimes you do and forget to answer, and then making excuses, coming up with silly excuses.

22. Are not you glad to new acquaintances

Even the idea that you have to meet new people, horrified. This does not mean that you can not be friends, you just difficult to meet new people.

23. You shy away from welcoming too familiar

Every time someone violates your personal space, you experience an irresistible urge to dissolve in the air, disappear, escape or hit a good one who climbed to cuddle you.

24. You do not like big crowds

Concerts, parties, pub-quiz or working conference make you feel uncomfortable and vulnerable. You certainly do not fall into panicBut subconsciously want to leave this place quickly.

25. You are not a misanthrope, you - introverted

Do you love people and understand the value of human communication, so consciously chosen on the parties and social events. But alone with you more comfortable: you appreciate the time that spend alone or with loved ones.