5 rules of life that most only dream

Too many do not live the way they want, and as expected of them. Their main motivation - to keep up with the others. Most often lost in their own dreams.

As a result, it deteriorates the health, because such a pretense is very tiring. Suffer a relationship breaks down emotional state. Even those who seemingly have everything to be happy, often just pretend.

However, you can build your life so that she was really happy. although definitions success all different, five points are usually the same:

• strong relationships with friends and family;
• work which gives a feeling of satisfaction;
• self-confidence;
• Financial independence;
• lasting legacy.

You can achieve this by changing your approach to life. To do this, follow the five rules.

1. Take the first step and tell people that you value them

If you can do something to strengthen the relationship, do it. Do not wait for something to take the other person.

If you want your relationships with family, friends and even any people in your life are really deep, take the first step. Be the first who:

• He begins to talk;
• sends a message;
• He says he misses;
• He says he loves;
• He is asking for forgiveness;
• arrange a meeting;
• compliments;
• thanks.

Most can not say a few simple words that would give impetus to the relationship and truly touched by another. Do not repeat this mistake. Let everyone important to you people - a partner, friend, mentor, family, colleagues - know that you appreciate it.

2. Invest free time in its development

Too many do not get joy and satisfaction from what they do. Even those who have achieved great success, not always satisfied with their work. It is not necessary. It is impossible to love in his work every detail, so that we should not resign immediately, if you do not like something. Do not turn your life upside down, to finally start writing a book or to set up an online business.

Develop your talents. Engaged in that love, after work. Over time, you can change it to what pleases you.

Successful people do not have "free" time. For them, this is the only time when you can do what you want. And they appreciate every minute.

You may have to stay a long time in the ongoing work for the sake of financial stability. But do not waste your free time, invest it in your future. Create an outlet for ideas and hobbies, Which can then be converted into a full-scale operation.

3. Get rid of the burden of the past

Few can say that prides itself on. The reason often unresolved issues from childhood. Usually, they just try to forget, but sooner or later they will go out and spoil our lives: our relationship destroy and undermine opportunities.

Get familiar with these long-standing problems. If you let things take their course, you will never feel confident.

emotional baggage by itself is not going anywhere. Time does not heal all wounds: often to heal, the effort will have to make yourself.

4. Strive for financial independence

You will not save enough money to freely dispose of their lives, if your only income - what you pay boss. Until you fully depend on him, you will not achieve financial independence. Start looking for other sources of income.

We think that if we work harder and longer, we will make your financial dreams come true. But one salary, no matter how high it is, it will not.

Tony Robbins, author, entrepreneur, coach

Many people spend money on unnecessary things. Buy the latest gadgets and luxury cars to impress and keep up with the others. Do not fall into this trap. If you want to live differently in future, live is not like the others, now.

5. Do something for others

Most do not think about what trail they leave behind. Remember, as in "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" characterize all human civilization? "Mostly Harmless". Here we are conducting a "mostly harmless" life, not doing anything important.

Many people mistakenly think that they have nothing to share with the world. But you have experienced something, learned something. What you seem obvious, others may be new and surprising. You can help prevent. Tell you how to avoid the mistakes that you made.

Share anything. If you help, and you help another person. So you leave your own legacy.

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To live well, you need to make a conscious choice. Tell people that you love them. Do not waste your free time. Get rid of the emotional baggage that keeps you from moving forward. Learn how to provide for themselves and help others.

It is most desperate dreams of such a life.