How to live when you are 20, 30, 40 and 50 years

When you are 20 years old

Twenty years - a complete nightmare.

The idea the world should please you. You just fluttered out of the cell. No more parental care and moralistic teachers. Finally, you can undress in front of other people (with their permission, of course). You can find a job.

You can fulfill all your dreams.

But nothing happens. Just because people in their twenties and really did not know how.

University education was not so and useful. Over the years you have received very few practical skills. I doubt creeps in: whether it was necessary at all to receive this university degree?

In addition, we are in a hurry to twenty years. We want as soon as possible "to be successful" and find a "deal of a lifetime."

Someone will tell you: "Time is money -". This means that every missed opportunity comes at a price. In fact it is not so. In an effort to calculate the mythical money lost due to unrealized chances you visit a standstill.

Because the time - it's not money. Money, of course, you can lose, but you can earn. But while it is impossible to earn. Money - it is a means to buy some food, and the time - it's everything else.

In twenty years, you do not understand and do not know how. The saddest thing about it that you do not even know. Because twenty years, we have more and silly.

But it normal. In twenty years, we usually choose hobby or a job, start to do something every day, hoping that sooner or later will succeed in this.

I wrote, engaged in programming, and when he received permission and consent of their clothing to another person. I was not good in any of those cases. But something still learned, because doing it all the time, though blind.

briefly

• Choose three to five sessions for yourself and practice them over and over again. Choose only those activities that you really want to do.
• Do not expect anything. Just do, do, do.

When you are 30 years old

Thirty years - sucks.

At twenty you paid for education. The same money now you are giving of your home. Someone has said that apartment necessarily need to buy - it is a good investment, an investment in the future. In addition, it's time you "take root."

Somehow, no one mentioned that the mortgage makes people become depressed, binds to one place and takes all the money.

In the thirty years you awfully tired of doing the same thing day after day.

At thirty, I learned to play.

In twenty years, I could not lose. All around were too "stupid", but I simply did not have another attempt. And another.

But at thirty, I realized that I underestimated people around. I learned that the people around me as well as I do.

In the thirty years I have realized that you can not find one thing to all life. You have to strive for multiple goals. You have to do what pleases not only you but also the people around.

If you are dealing with good people and do worthwhile things, then sooner or later you have something happen. If you are lucky, you get something else.

When you are 40 years old

Forty years - could not be worse. Nightmare and Hell.

Firstly, you will no longer be there. And yet it is impossible to experience.

Food + stress = aging.

But, of course, you need to eat. But only half of the usual serving. And you will experience. But you need to ignore the stress, otherwise you will die.

You can eat less, if you do what he likes most. Then stick stress You do not have to.

You can worry less if you stop to accumulate around them unnecessary things.

In twenty, thirty and forty years I kept a fool in a relationship, family matters, communicating with others, doing business - but almost everything. But now I do not care. Realize their mistakes rather than constantly worrying about them.

briefly

• In twenty years, you think you know what you are doing.
• In the thirty years you will do everything in order to make more money.
• In forty years, you do what you like.

To find what you like, mentally go back to his twenty years. Remember that you are loved, and do it. Just do not overstate expectations.

When you are 50 years old

One woman brought her son to Gandhi and said: "Gandhi, tell him that he stopped eating sweets." Gandhi said, "Come back in two weeks."

The woman and her son went home, hundreds of kilometers away. Two weeks later they returned. And Gandhi said to her son: "Stop eating sweets."

The woman asked: "Gandhi's why you made us travel hundreds of kilometers to the house, and then come back here? Why did not you tell this to our first visit? "

Gandhi said, "Before you tell your son to stop eating sweets, I had to stop myself eating sweets."

briefly

Fifty years? See you in two years.

see also

• 3 ways to make a difference and enjoy every day →
• How to change life for the better without radical changes →
• Life lessons that are worth learning at any age →
• How to survive the crisis of middle age: 6 Simple Tips →