5 errors that people feel sorry for the end of life

Nurse armor Weir Australia nursed hopeless sick the last 12 weeks of their lives. She recorded the most common mistakes in life, which told the patients, and published them in a blog Inspiration and Chai.

1. Do not dare to live your life the way you want

Many people today are building their lives on the basis of other people's expectations. In all areas they prefer that favor their partners or society.

As a result, such people meet the expectations of all - parents, teachers, friends - but they feel a constant pressure. Most of the time they feel cornered and unhappy.

How to avoid mistakes

Stay true to yourself. If you had the courage to live the way you want, you probably will encounter criticism and disagreement. Hear the quiet advice and opinions of others, but if they do not coincide with yours, do not pay them much attention.

Just as others have the right to express their opinion, you have the right not to take it into account. You do not live in order to please someone. So do not be afraid to spoil relations with the dissenting people.

2. Overwork

In today's society accepted to sink in. People are busier than ever in history. Yes, the situation of the workers in the factories at the beginning of the XX century was much worse, but then they did not have a choice, and we have.

Parents rarely see their children and care for them shift on the shoulders of grandparents or nannies. People do not have time for relationships, and other personal matters, a career is always a priority, it towers over everything else.

Yes, the work provides a livelihood, but for some people it becomes a key parameter identity.

How to avoid mistakes

Determine your priorities. If you do not have time for a relationship, it means that they have not in the first place. If you miss a class at the gym, then you is not important your physical form, even if you assert the contrary.

Each person in a day of 24 hours, no more, no less. So much time in the day of successful entrepreneurs like Bill Gates, From financial magnates such as Warren Buffett, from well-known athletes such as Serena Williams, or from TV celebrities such as Oprah Winfrey. Just someone every day spends productively, while others complain that nothing succeeds.

Think about what you want to spend your time and make an informed choice. What is the most you value in life? You spend your time according to your priorities? If the last question you answered in the negative, your desires and actions do not match. Fix it.

3. Failing to express your feelings

Have you ever tried to forget the person and their feelings for him only because they were afraid to open? If yes, then you are not alone. The world is really a lot of people who are alone, not because unattractive. No, they are educated, beautiful, interesting in communication, but closed for the senses. They systematically miss the opportunity to meet new people and expand your social circle.

For the comfort and peace of mind they reject any attempt to start a relationship, finding millions of reasons why this person is "wrong," "not for me" and so on.

How to avoid mistakes

It is better to regret what was done, than about missed opportunities. Or maybe, regret and did not have to. Open up.

Firstly, you will immediately become easier. Second, do you know if your feelings are mutual or not. Even if you get a rejection, it will be easier to live with it forever forget about the personThan all his life suffer the question: "What if ..."

Finally, ask yourself what the worst thing can happen when you confess your feelings? You will be denied (most likely in the polite form), and you just realize that it's not the same person.

And if your feelings are mutual, you get an unforgettable experience, a bonus which will be the pride of his own courage.

4. Lose contact with your friends

We think that the friendship - it is something eternal. That it will remain in any case, even if we do not give it enough attention. Therefore, we can easily sacrifice the friendly meetings for work, cancel the gatherings because of the romantic dates, and other important matters. And then regret about lost friends.

How to avoid mistakes

Instead of waiting for when friends offer you to meet, take the first step. Perhaps they, too, waiting for you to call or write to them, invite to spend time together.

If, however, your efforts have not been successful, perhaps people simply have other priorities. In this case, you will not regret that away from them, because you have done all this not to happen.

5. Do not allow yourself to be a happy man

You are deeply unhappy? You always complain about the troubles in his life? You were talking about things that you do not have, and the opportunities that you have missed, instead of enjoying what you have?

Too many people feel unhappy because of his ideas about where they should be, and that have to be happy. However, many of these sufferers live in a comfortable environment, have a stable job, a decent income, a healthy social environment and a great family.

But happiness does not depend on material well-being. It depends on the individual opinions about what it means to be happy.

How to avoid mistakes

Realize that happiness - is the choice of everyone. Many people believe that it depends on some factors. They think they will be happy, if achieved, the second, third, if their needs are met.

But happiness does not depend on achievements and does not come with them or after them. Happiness - it's what you can experience right now, if you allow yourself to do it.

There is no way to happiness. Happiness - is the way.

And what do you regret? Share in the comments.