9 presents that the children will remain for life

1. Family traditions

Kind of like the New Year waiting for a fairy tale, but not to reduce all the magic only to gift under the Christmas tree. Magic - is a ritual, and it is not necessary to finish Hogwarts to make magical tradition. Those same markers, which you know: New Year soon. Tradition, for which not only waiting for the night of the thirty-first to the first, but also the whole of December (or all of the New Year holidays).

Christmas tree and snowflakes - is a mandatory program, but because each family can have its own magic.

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To come up with and implement.

My family decided to wait for miracles from the first of December, because on the night of the first with a small gift arrives tit - messenger of Santa Claus. And every December morning, that morning-it is difficult to call, because before dawn still far away, the child gleefully jumps up and runs to verify that brought titmouse. It may just be candy, bubbles, made with his own hands a gift - it does not matter. The main thing that is a surprise every day.

2. Health

Which, as we know, can not be bought, but sold. But it is easy to lose, even as a child, if the parents will not pay attention to the condition of the child. In winter, so too lazy to crawl out of a warm home somewhere on the street. Even Christmas lights'm in a cafe or in a store, not a walk. But do not sit well locked up until the spring.

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Buy skiing, Skating, snowboarding and comfortable outfit. Make a plan for all the holidays for active walks in the fresh air with the whole family. If you have previously preferred to winter fun at home, start with at least daily walks, even in the snow and frost. The road from the school or kindergarten to the house is not considered - all in the park!

3. A good education

Cost of training in Russian high school - from 20 thousand a year. In a good university in the popular specialty - from 200 thousandTuition fees in universities in Russia in 2016. . Or maybe your child decides to study abroad.

Good education has not stopped anyone yet, but not everyone can get it for free.

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From January to set aside money for education, if still do not. Needless to postpone? Then look for free resources to help you learn better than in school. selections courses we have done many times. Look at least among themThan the interest of the child.

And if the child is still small and can not overpower courses, still think about it, where to get money for training, and open the storage account.

4. True friend

Such a friend who will be there if not for life, but his memory will always be with the child. A friend who will support and teach attentive to others, to explain what kindness and responsibility.

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decide on pet it is difficult, but the coming holidays will help. You will have enough time to adapt the animal in the house and for training child care for the animal.

You can not start a huge dog or fluffy cat. Select an appropriate pet for your family. Of course, it should be done only if the child wants to pet.

5. Ability to work with his hands

A skill that is very necessary for any independent person. Adult man himself in a position to prepare a meal, get out, to sew up a hole in the pants, screwed into place the system cover, clean the keyboard, and hang a picture on the wall. Teach children simple household work - the duty of the parents.

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Decide what can a child, depending on age. Understand what you can from it, and what you are willing to teach him. And bring a child to work, to show and explain.

Just remember that the child - only pupil. Do everything together and choose those classes that are interesting Prepare an unusual lunch, build a house for dolls or assemble the robot. The result should be such as to make it worthwhile for him to try.

6. New impressions

They are adults and do not give up, and the children all new vital. Children still only made up a picture of the world in which they grow up and live. The more you show your child, the more interesting will be his world.

How can they give

Go to where finances allow. Arrange unusual vacation. Visit a place where you still have not. Go through all-around museums and memorial sites, to see the exhibition and presentation in the theater. Only this should be done not only on New Year's Eve, but permanently.

7. Independence

Child, even if he just learned to walk, will have to grow up and break away from the father and mother. It is, in fact, is the main task of parents - to prepare the child to independent life. Such training begins at birth. Above it you have to think and learn to properly act, but it's worth it.

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The main rule - never to do for the child what he can do himself. Teach, demonstrate, explain, but not to take his case into his own hands. It starts with little things, like the ability to hold a cup or tie shoelaces, ending the first to earn money and career choice.

8. The ability to manage money

This item smoothly follows from the previous one, but I believe it is worth mentioning separately. The school taught math for years, but the money is considered by many adults have not learned.

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To begin to learn how to manage their income and expenses. As you wish: to put an application, make a spreadsheet or even a notebook, try pitchers method. Show your child how you do a budget, and then select the amount of out of pocket expenses.

Even a five-year child can already understand what he likes: to spend money quickly and buy a chocolate bar or a little to save and get a toy. Since then, and financial literacy begins.

9. Self-confidence

Nobody knows exactly where she's gone and where does, but all of us from childhood. to educate self-confidence - the same problem of how to feed and clothe. That is, it will have to deal with constantly.

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Appreciate your child and understand that he is a person. Maintain it, and to teach. Do not blame for the mistakes and shortcomings, and point to them and help fix it. Well, like a child, of course.

And what you give your child?