How to find friends when you are 30 years old

In kindergarten, at school and in high school friends appear themselves. 10-20 years no longer remember why you became friends. And no wonder: in the 20 years we have been friends for 10 to 15 hours per weekBureau of Labor Statistics, U.S. Department of Labor.Time spent in leisure activities in 2014, by gender, age, and educational attainment. . And then we plunge into work, we start a family... It's hard to find time even for morning exercises, not to mention the constant meetings.

And it turns out that even in the evenings to chat with whom. Some of my friends went to another city, someone broke interests. Communication with colleagues and with my family enough.

A comparison of the severity of loneliness experienced by 255 Canadian men and 431 women with features of their love-romantic, family, friendship and companionship found that the feeling of loneliness is most closely associated with a deficit of friendly relations.

Igor Kon, "Friendship: ethical and psychological sketch"

So many people have to look for new friends. It is not easy, because there is no time. Social networks, of course, help to maintain love. But to subscribe to someone else's news does not mean to be a friend. How to find loved ones on the internet?

Look for friends where they can be

The first tip to find friends on the internet - to choose the services that really help you to find "their" man. You will not wait for a tram on the street without paved paths or to fish in the pool. The same principle works in the social networks.

Sotsialok users have long known that each of them has its own rules of the game. Some networks focus on professional communication, they need to look for colleagues, artists and investors, not friends. Others help to find people who have lost contact with. Nice to know how things were going, but if you for many years did not communicate with the person, it is not the best recommendation for friendship.

Search for new people with similar interests - a network specialization MyFriends. In it people are not by name and not by date of graduation, and interest and geolocation.

Start the profile with the real name

When a person looks at your profile on a social network, he became acquainted with you. And when meeting adoption is the real name. This requirement of etiquette and banal politeness and courtesy and respect for the other person is necessary for the ties of friendship.

Remember how we got to know as a child, when finding a mate was a breeze. No nicknames: handing them to us themselves friends.

Remove the seal from the avatar

And the car is also clean. In general, anything that interferes with looking at your face. You want to be friends with a real person, not a picture. The same applies to those who are going to communicate with you. And it is strange - to start a friendship, hiding behind a mask. Be honest, and people to reach for you.

In MyFriends put substandard avatars is not that is not accepted, this simply can not be done. So you always see with whom you are going to talk and meet.

And seals add to the tape, but only their own, and not someone else's photos from the Internet.

Publish more information about yourself

Remember that somewhere in MyFriends registered person who is looking for a friend like you. Help him to find you. Fill out the profile as detailed as possible: the service was invented for the story itself, and not to collect likes and repost.

In MyFriends there are no census hundreds of similar articles and jokes fly around PUBLIC immediately. MyFriends - it's personal.

Showcase your hobbies

Like it or not, most of the information we receive through vision. In MyFriends the principle "We do not say, and the show." Take pictures and add them to the hashtags to be a means of search interest. The better and clearer description of each photo, the more likely that you will see people with similar views.

Write the first

Sometimes we get so hung up on the old contact that does not work just to take and write to a stranger. Especially if you need to come up with an introductory word: who you are, why write. But another person may worry the same doubts. Therefore, we must take the initiative in their hands and start somewhere. For example, a comment on a good photograph.

By the way, when you leave a record in MyFriends, your intentions and so clear: you are looking for a friend, but do not gain subscribers and does not spin page.

Look for nearby friends

Previously friends were divided into several categories: one, a friend, an acquaintance. Relatively recently, the notion of "Internet friend". It seems to be a friend, but not quite.

What prevents the virtual become real friends? Distances and only digital communication. Therefore, if you do not like this replacement friendship, look for people who live near you. The easiest way - on geolocation. You will be surprised when you see how many possible friends live with you in the same street.

This is not the only search filter friends. Pick and choose who you think will make you a better company.

Go to meetings

Remember how much time they spend twenty years of your friends? Yes, more than 10 hours a week. A bit much for those who are over thirty. Why do we meet less often? Because more and more difficult to insert a joint campaign in a cafe or in a movie schedule. When one is busy, the freedom of others, and vice versa.

But without personal contact friendship is born. It is with an old friend you can not see each other for years, without changing the relationship to humans. New become closer without speaking, total employment or recreation.

Try to meet new people, without changing the schedule. For example, you are going to the premiere of the film. Write in the social networks of his desire, to you anybody join - that's the reason for the meeting and the way to choose the place and time. IN MyFriends There is a separate option, which is called - "Desire". Offers suggestions where to go and what to do, or through who is going in the near future to spend time with benefits. Join us and be friends health.