How and why did you deceive parents
Motivation A Life / / December 19, 2019
All parents want their children to good.
Want so much for the sake of it can sometimes go on the line of their deception. With good intentions, of course. The only problem is that the consequences for such a deception could be the saddest. Therefore, this article we want to face the truth and transfer those cases where parents deliberately take their children by the nose. And speech here goes not about where babies come from or about Father Christmas and things are much more serious.
Of highest value of marriage
Choosing a life partner really is of paramount importance. It will have an impact on your career, health, mood, interests. However, to be led by the older generation and to give marriage too sublime, sacred significance should not be. Everything flows, everything changes, and perhaps there will come a stage when your family ties will be ties in the literal sense of the word. better in time breake downThan to suffer the rest of their lives because of the fact that "our family so is not accepted."
About the importance of education
Another lie that you hear from parents - is the story of compulsory education for success. You can dry up all the brains in the educational institutions to get two diplomas and a degree, but did not manage to get in this life. Yes, a good education can improve your chances of getting a good job and career, but it is not a sufficient condition for this. If this were so, we would not have seen thousands of unemployed graduates of prestigious institutions. And I would not write about the opposite phenomenon.
On the "normality"
In the minds of your parents has long been crystallized and ossified clear criteria to be met by a "normal" person. But the criteria they developed in a different time and are not always relevant. Do not let them rooted in the concepts of experimentation and limit your chances of their own mistakes. In the end, if we have always sought to comply with existing standards, mankind would never have invented cars, computers and swimwear bikini (last just awful!). Oh, and if you dig a well in the biography of their ancestors, you probably find such frenzy that the current and never dreamed of!
About the only correct religion
Almost all of us get our first religious knowledge from our parents. And very often this knowledge is absorbed by us in the form of dogma that challenge or just even doubt is totally unacceptable. In fact, your religious preferences are valuable only when you yourself have come to him, not received by inheritance.
About your uniqueness
Every child is for the parents, the most the best. Sometimes it becomes too exaggerated form and leads to the fact that the child also begins to believe in their uniqueness and genius. How, then, it is a bitter disappointment when you start to deal with the real life, which for some reason does not want to believe in your uniqueness!
You need to eat up to the end
Every child hears it. "To be healthy, we must eat well!", "It is not doesh until the end of the table do not get up!" "Another spoonful for Mama ..." and so on. I do not know how it was before, but now childhood obesity is so prevalent that parents better teach children to reasonable restrictions in food, rather than forcibly zakarmlivat their children to pig state.
About Smartphones and PCs
Whether we like it or not, modern information technology burst into our lives and changed her eyes. So fast that your parents could not keep up with it. Therefore, many perceive the gadgets just like fashion toys, without which it is possible to do. In fact it is not so, and now the ability to be controlled with digital devices is no less important than the ability to read and write.
The value of money
For most parents, the only indicator of your success is the size of your paycheck. This is a simple and clear criteria, but it does not always coincide with such things as the satisfaction of life and the choice of their vocation. Therefore, very often young people, following a similar setup of the older generation, begins to engage completely in what is the soul, and so, for that paid more. What then have to pay the loss of many years of his life.
As you can see, all the parents deceive their children at every step. It begins with the beautiful stories about elves and beautiful princesses, and ends by inserting into your brain of its behaviors, which they considered to be the only correct and acceptable. Take this deception, or live your head - it depends only on you. But whatever you choose, it will take a little time, and you just begin to deceive their children.