On what should be discarded on the way to success
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
Other people's expectations, the need for approval and emotional baggage from the past - this is not the best companions on the road to success, no matter what purpose you aspired.
1. From someone else's idea of success
Get rid of it the most difficult, because it is deeply rooted in our culture. But it can be completely without express yourself and to do what's important to you.
It is you and not someone else will have to live with the consequences of the choices made. So why do you have to live guided by other people's values?
In order to make it easier to get rid of someone else's idea of success, you must first understand the essence of their goals. Think about why you want to achieve this or that? What these achievements you bring?
2. Fear of condemnation
This fear many of us do not give a try themselves in their dreams. The main thing to realize that you do not have to convince others that your business is important and valuable to you. Try to resist the constant need for approval from the side. Those whose opinion really matters to you, certainly support you. And the rest is not worth wasting your nerves.
Focus on process rather than on the reward that awaits you at the end, and you will begin to notice that gradually moving to the life that we dream about.
3. Emotional baggage from the past
Sooner or later you have to let go of old resentment and unpleasant memories. Otherwise, the future becomes too much like the past.
We often get angry at bosses who have been fired. Try to let go of this feeling and realize that it was all for the better. After all, if this has not happened to you, you would not be able to move to the next stage of life.
Renouncing something, we not only bring a sacrifice, but also get something in return, create an opportunity to start something new.