Why you should not hide their introversion

Let's be a little more honest with yourself and admit that most of us are introverts. Someone takes it and does not try to hide this fact. But most succumbing to the pressure of public opinion and the TV, hide their introversion and try to be for everyone-shirt boys and girls. By myself I can say that it is tedious, and personally I have no desire to do so. I - introvert and proud of it.

Today, in addition to infographics about introverts, I want to tell you about errors that cause people to hide their valuable property and ignore the fact that in reality ...

The world is governed introverts, extroverts who pretend.

Let's face it - a lot of introverts, and they are not worse extroverts, and in some ways even better. After all, society has always brought great benefit to writers, artists and scientists are immersed in their inner world.

Today introverts live in the space of the Web, as evidenced by the huge number of forums and communities.

1. What is introversion?

Introverts live like a human in the exercise ball size. The main feature of this introverted, unlike a closed people - this is how they get their energy. Extroverts get their energy from their environment.

They absorb "positive energy" around them, and so they need a large number of social interactions.

introverts same themselves produce their energy and, rather than take it away from others, give it with social contact. This means that they are by their nature are most interactions tiring, and they need time to recharge. As This energy is a limited resourceThey tend to see in the extrovert disgusting predators trying to steal their sweet, sweet nectar of power. That is why we need this ball of personal space.

2. How to react with introverted

Only that someone is an introvert does not mean that he does not like to be in the company. Just social contacts are expensiveAnd he does not want to waste energy on anything irritating. This is wasteful.

When meeting with an introvert

Say hello, be polite and relaxed, show that you recognize and approve of his presence. For the introvert it is very important to feel welcome - it will not waste your precious energy on someone who does not want it in my neighborhood. If you have interesting and important news for mentions, tell them. But we should not be imposed on gossip.

Now introvert I know that you are a friendly set up and open for cooperation. But do not try to force waste of energy if it does not have such a need.

Ta Da'am Workers Party! That's all there is to it!

Remember:

• Respect the personal space (the human sphere).
• Energy limited.
• Do not require energy expenditure for itself when it is not needed.
• Do not take the silence as an insult - this is not true!
• Introverts also get lonely.

3. Myths about introverts

introverts taciturn

This is not true. They just do not say, if they have nothing to say. They do not like empty talk. If you talk to them about something that interests them, they can not be stopped.

introverts are shy

Shyness has nothing to do with introversion. Introverts are not afraid of people, but they need to contact a reason. They do not talk just for the sake of communication. If you want to talk to an introvert, just talk to him. Do not be afraid to seem impolite.

introverts are rude

Introverts often do not see the reasons for ceremonies and exchange pleasantries. They want everyone to be natural and honest. Unfortunately, in most cases it is not acceptable, so introverts are sometimes worth a lot of effort to adapt, and it is for them tedious.

Introverts do not like people

Conversely, introverts appreciate those few friends who they have. They can count close friends on the fingers of one hand. If you are lucky enough to be a friend introvert, you have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned his respect as a substantial man, he is with you.

Introverts do not like to go out into society

Nonsense. Introverts do not like to go out in society for too long. They quickly assimilate information, and therefore they do not need to spend much time in the community, to be "in the subject." They will go home to recharge and digest the impressions received. Recharging tranquility for introverts is vital.

Introverts - strange

Most introverts - individualists. They do not follow the crowd. They prefer to be appreciated for their unusual lifestyle. They think with your head and therefore often challenge what is considered the norm. They do not make decisions based solely on what is popular and fashionable.

World Without introverts, the world would have been a small number of scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers and philosophers. Introverts can not "fix" and deserve respect for their innate temperament and the benefits they have brought to mankind.