What most people regret the end of his life

As much as it may sound scary, but death will overtake everyone. And all you can do - is to live your life for a reason. But the problem is that the understanding, if life is lived in vain, usually comes before death. But there is another way to realize it - listen to dying people. Hospice nurses told what regret hopeless patients.

1. I regret that I did not have the courage to live as I would like

But not like other people's expectations of me.

It was the most common regret of hospice patients. When you realize that your life is over, it is easy to look back and realize that your dreams remained unfulfilled. Most people do not reach even half of their goals. Because of the choices they have made, or, on the contrary, did not.

It is important to try and dare to implement at least some of your dreams. But it's too late, when health is leaving us.

Health gives freedom, but we are too late to realize that.

2. I regret that I was working too much

All male patients regretted that too much time and effort to work. They paid very little time with their loved ones. They missed their children growing up, and very little time to spend with their spouses. In retrospect, they did not understand why so

3. I regret that I did not say I was not so bold openly about their feelings

Many people suppress their feelings, to keep peace with others. As a result, they settle for mediocre, mediocre existence. They never were the ones who could become.

Anger and regret - it causes diseases of many people.

We can not control the reactions of other people. Nevertheless, it should be frank and honest with the person. If it is not satisfied, he will go out of your life. And along with it, and an unhealthy relationship. In any case, you win.

4. I regret not having kept in touch with friends

In the bustle of the world's friendship - the only thing that is important in your personal life.

Karl Marx

Many were so busy with their own affairs, that during the life not valued, and lost precious friendships. All hospice patients were sorry, that did not give enough time to your friends. Everyone misses him dying.

5. I'm sorry I did not let myself be happier

Many do not realize until the end of life, happiness - is the solution. They are stuck in the old rules, patterns, habits. The so-called "comfort" has dominated their feelings. fear of change It has led to what became deceive themselves and others, believing that everything is in order and that they are satisfied. Even when a child wanted to be, have some fun or laugh really.

Realize that life - it is a choice. The choices that you make. So choose consciously, wisely and honestly.

Choose happiness. Then you will not have to regret.