Stop sharing other people's achievements!
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
This morning I saw this video (watch is not necessary to the essence of the article, it is not relevant, it just sets the style of the article as a carpet Lebowski apartment):
It is to me so much that I decided to share it with lightning speed in facebook (sudden, given that long ago I did not do it). For a moment I thought - why should I share an interesting video? Why do I need to tell thousands of people about the person whom I do not know? Why talk about what I did not put the slightest effort? After all, I stopped to do something like this - laziness and self-deception. I have access to the Xbox Kinnect, I have friends VJs and musicians, and friends in advertising enough. If this is so cool, why we do not do this, and continue to share content in the social. networks simultaneously imposing seen on your online identity?
example children
Remember behavior unspoiled social networks and the construction of their children create fake virtual image. To you once ran up your or someone else's baby with the words "Daddy (uncle), look like Manya tumbles on the bar?" My ever. He will learn a series of falls with Manya tumble as well, and then will make my brain screams, "Daddy, look what I can do!" He will learn, do, and then brag about. And it is right.
EXAMPLE boasting and idleness
Back in 1926, Kurt Lewin called the behavior of the person to talk about their plans before any action "substitution". replacement - this is where you tell all your friends about the new project, get a good fidbek and... do nothing. The irony is that you only need fidbek and you receive it, more and more losing the motivation to do something now.
When you post to social networks without thinking immediately after watching the video with dudes on Wind-surfing ...
... think it may be worth spending a few hundred dollars for a trip to Dahab for a few days learn how to ride the surf, and your photos and your videos to impress your friends with your achievements?
Think of how many videos you have laid out for the last time in the network - the dancers, beatboxers, parkurschiki, skateboarders, surfers and others. And now that all of you have done after seeing and card sharing? But how nice to get huskies and comments like "cool", "incredible", "on-fee-Get out!», OMFG, TIGLH... Your ego enough and there is still so many dreams, that life does not seem hollow. An interesting substitute for, is not it?
Devoid of visible emotion contemplate social networking, full of admiration of the actions of other people unfamiliar to them.
How did these people get their recognition without my feysbuchika?
Video dubstep at the beginning I found in the trade publication about digital-technology, which has long interested. And surfers - on YouTube-channel, on which I was advised by my teacher to subscribe for windsurfing in Dahab previously mentioned.
Think about this. The Beatles have been recognized with such force that today none of this close and not - without your feysbuchika way. Martin Luther King abandoned his incredibly bold ideas so far as none of us are able to do so. We Do Lama so many followers that you do not run out no facebook-audience to catch up with him. All will happen and is already happening without you, you Charité is in the mesh or not. But you yourself will not happen without itself. I'd like to transmit the signal from someone else's information, we have bacteria nodes of this network - and the bacteria will always be, do not worry about it. And for this you just need to start doing something - to deal with video installations, writing music, DJs, playing the piano or to get up on a surf and finally understand that to achieve - it's human nature, and bacterial behave - it is something new for us.
I do not like to be a bacterium, do not you?