13 ways to make life rich and colorful
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
1. Listen to the feelings of
The Council seems to be sheer madness, because to be successful you need to be guided by logic and calculation, and have a clear plan of action. However, the most famous and accomplished people believe: you need to learn to listen to your inner voice.
Composer Alan Menken (Alan Menken), describing the process of creating music for cartoons, said that to follow your heart, do our best to listen to your feelings. If you learn it, the capacity for logical reasoning and prudence will also appear.
This advice is especially good for those days when you do not know what you want. At such times, we tend to complicate things or thinking too much.
The solution is simple: listen to the inner "I". Follow him. The only way you will learn to understand what you feel, express it and use for their own benefit.
2. Get new experience
What goal do you have any haunted, in fact you are looking for new knowledge and skills. Therefore, instead of blindly strive for this goal, ask yourself: 'What experience do I want to get? ".
Once you answer that question, you can understand what it is trying to achieve. You will be able to determine how to work effectively.
The Wright brothers wanted to fly. Someone wants to climb Mount Everest, to live a happy and healthy life, to become a millionaire. Elon Musk wants to die on Mars. And what do you want?
- Can love and be loved?
- Can have a strong and healthy body?
- Maybe your goal is more specific or unusual?
Experience - this is what makes us human. The meaning of life is in all the events that we have experienced. You can evaluate almost every object in your home, but to hang a price tag on his memories and experience will not work. They can not be bought.
To achieve something, you can only hard work. For example, you can not sit on the bench at the entrance and two years to become a doctor of sciences. We'll have to learn, teach, write research papers, to meet face to face with the criticism.
The most valuable experience if protected from those who do not know how to get it, and does not want to do anything. Do not get run marathonIf before you were engaged exclusively eating pizza and watching TV series.
3. Use the experience to open new doors
Jim Rohn, a well-known author and speaker, spoke about the moment when clearly realized that we can not live.
When Jim was 25 years old at his door he knocked girl scout. She asked Jim to buy some cookies to support their organization. Despite the fact that the liver is only worth two dollars, Jim did not have this money. He was so ashamed that he decided to lie and said, "You know, we recently bought a cookie at the other girl."
The girl thanked Jim and walked away, and he closed the door, stood a few minutes in silence in the hall. At that moment he realized that more so can not live. After this incident, every day he tries to improve themselves and their lives.
Jim is sure that if I had not lied about buying cookies, he would never have felt the urgent need to develop and work. It was that experience that has opened a new door to a new life in front of him. On the other hand, this experience helped Jim mentally prepare and realize that he is ready to learn, to grow, to try and achieve goals.
After certain experiences and events you get the opportunity to change ourselves, to draw correct and good people and adventure in your life.
4. analyze the situation
Sometimes things pile up, the tension rises. I want to relax. To do this, we try to go where quiet and nice. For example, close to the forest, the sea, the mountains. Only in this setting can experience peace. Nature - the perfect place for rest and recovery.
When set a goal, just think about the circumstances under which you will be able to achieve it.
Remember that you will in any case be affected by culture, ethnicity, tradition. Consider how they can help prevent or get what you want.
5. Get out of any situation the maximum benefit
You need to keep asking yourself, "What do I give this situation?". You can always get the maximum benefit and experience from all the circumstances.
This is your goal: to see and recognize opportunities to do everything to implement them, evaluate the experience.
For example, if you are reading this article, diverting for a moment and look around. Who is in the room or apartment but you?
- If it's someone from the family, you can tell him how he is dear to you.
- If this is your favorite, it's time to say three main words.
- Even cat once again stroke will not be ashamed.
Such an experience for someone may seem banal. Others are difficult to take this step, because it requires openness and transparency. But the experience gained in return is priceless and very important for all.
6. change the situation
In addition, to assess the situation in which you reside, make every effort to change it. Make it so that the circumstances have helped you.
For example, if you find it difficult to concentrate, you can play music, use earplugs, Transfer to a comfortable chair or expand the table. No need to turn the whole world upside down, to make the day a little brighter and more productive.
7. Keep track of your thoughts and desires
What do you usually think?
Most people spend time and energy on something to think about the abyss that separates them from the desired goal.
- "I still did not get the contract."
- "My attitude is very bad."
- "I would like to be stronger and leaner."
These thoughts contain only one thing: a statement of the problem. You also need to focus on its decision. People usually reflect on what they want to avoid. In fact, only need to visualize the experience that you want.
In my mind, you should seek only to what you like.
8. Hold 90 minutes in continuous operation
During operation, we often get distracted, and our brains need a minimum of 23 minutes to focus on the task again.
On the other hand, all successful people say that taught itself to run continuously, without losing focus on the 90 minutes a day. This recipe efficiency of different, but the basis of it never changes:
- Start work early in the morning.
- Divide the working day into three blocks.
- Each block should be equal to 90 minutes.
If you get a stable and productive work at least once a day, but 90 minutes at a time, you already reach more than many other people. Between the blocks do not forget to relax. Rest is not less important than the concentration at work.
9. Save your time
In order to implement the previous point, you need to learn how to create such circumstances in which it will be easy to focus and work. If you exercise, it is best to do it in a specially equipped room, not at home on a rug.
The first thing to do - to remove all distractions. For example, turn off the phone to get rid of annoying alerts. Until your last 90 minutes, you can not be distracted. Let the whole world is going to hell, and you need to complete the assigned tasks.
Get ready for the difficulties. People will try to steal your time. Even from good intentions. To tell an interesting story, to advise, to complain about life. Be strong, do not let them do it.
10. Remember that your time is very expensive
To follow the previous advice, do this: Set a specific goal and write down on a piece of paper, how much you want to earn this year. Then figure out how much is a minute of your working time.
Remember this figure. Every time you want to escape, count how much money to lose, prokrastiniruya.
Is the video with kittens on YouTube really worth it?
11. "Disconnect" as often as possible
Author of "cumulative effect" Darren Hardy (Darren Hardy) advises "switched off" for high productivity. He, of course, is referring to disconnect from the mobile, internet networks and even reject calls on a regular phone.
Darren Hardy advised to refrain from using gadgets with the connected communication at least those 90 minutes that you are working intently. It is also desirable to plan the days when you will be completely "shut down" by all networks.
The writer believes that this practice will allow you to awaken creativity, productivity and life make sense.
Try to abandon calls, mail and the Internet for one day. Take care of what you really love to do. Go to his dream.
12. Find a leader and follow him
Do you have an example to follow? See what this person is busy right now. What he tries that does to achieve his goal. Go after it with the same speed and tenacity.
Usain Bolt, the fastest runner in the world, has set numerous world records over the past few years. It is interesting. But even more interesting is that those runners who have to compete with this unique athlete, also set new records. In other words, those who lose a bolt, run faster than anyone before them.
Suffice it to strive for the leader and keep up the pace. Then you overtook other competitors.
Of course, it is better that you find positive role models.
13. do less
If you spend most of the time, taking care of the household and the banal problems or those tasks that can be entrusted to another person, you do not move forward. You sucks routine. Such a life would not be interesting and remarkable.
Remember Pareto law? 20% of efforts gives 80% of the results, while the remaining 80% of the effort - only 20% of the results. Based on this principle, determine their priorities.
Focus on those activities that bring maximum results. Then you make a huge leap towards its goal. On the way to it you will find many interesting things, see what has long dreamed of seeing. And those who have long used the Pareto principle, in practice, they say that with its help you can even slow down time.
To summarize
Your life - it is a set of actions, decisions and ideas. The experience that you gain throughout your life depends on how you build your day, week, year. Any life hacking can turn your life into a beautiful kaleidoscope of events. Even the most minor decisions will help you reach the most distant goal.
We must act immediately. Immediately after reading.