How to survive the break and could not sleep at Facebook

So you (now probably) finished their relationships and experience in this regard the strong feelings - joy and sadness-sadness. In any case, some sediment have stayed, and I would like to get rid of him. And yet I do not want questions from a couple of hundred friends in Facebook, what happened and why you broke up. It is clear that you will not post event "end of the relationship," but can be slept in other ways, especially if you're all on the emotions and do not watch what you are doing. Here are eight tips to not sleeping in the social network after a breakup to avoid unnecessary questions and in general to forget everything.

Change the status of the relationship so that no one noticed

So, the relationship ended, and as soon as you go to your Facebook page and you will see the status of "common", immediately want to change this unpleasant lie on the "It's Complicated."

But wait! If you do this right now, the news will see all of your friends. Do you want to easily give up in the news feed of this fact, and then answer the endless questions and hints?

In general, if you do not have a clear understanding of what all do not care for you and your relationship, do it differently. Click on the tab "Marital status" and before a deep breath to change the status on the dash, "single" or "It's Complicated", set the privacy settings "Only me."

All, now you will not see an unwanted status and the crowd of your friends - his sudden replacement.

Which is better: rasfrendit or block

To monitor the former did not kill nerve cells and is not pushed in a moment of weakness to write them, you can choose two ways: to lock or delete the page from friends.

If your parting was terrible, and the idea that you are free, is joyous laughter, feel free to press the "Remove from friends". Well, if you have more than once caught myself watching his / her page, one way out - lock.

Last time nurse on the page, be aware that he would never see her again, cry and click "Block."

One click, and just three plus: you stop to look at the page of the former / ex gradually treated time without disruption, and nobody will know that you have blocked your account because they do not come about any notice. You simply cease to see each other and everything.

But relatives and friends of the former / ex-remember?

Well here you have blocked former passion and seems to have already begun a new life, but there are still enough Facebook reminders of the past. And the first of them - his / her relatives and friends with whom you met through a partner, did not communicate and will not communicate.

This is a reminder about the relationship and what more! And if in the news feed will appear photos as they are perfectly spend time together, or even a photo of your ex second half with a new mate?

In general, it is necessary to remove them as well, still you will not communicate. Yes, at first, of course, think you need these people or not.

Because the heat of the moment can be poudalyat anyone who has anything to do with was your loved one, and then regret it.

Remove photos with marks and clean page

Why do you photograph with former passion? You want a new relationship or not (at least in the long term, but not right now)? Of course, I'm sorry to keep all 500 photos of your love, but after all, does not necessarily remove them permanently.

Just download them to your computer in the folder "does not open a rag !!!" or in one of its cloud services and leave until better times. When memories will trigger pleasant nostalgia, not painful spasms of the soul.

Do not chase the new love of the former / ex, even if you really want

If you find out that the former passion instead of sadness and loneliness eats the joy of new relationships, it is not necessary see who the lucky (or unfortunate) to take your place, and even more so to add it to friends.

Of course, it is unpleasant, but surveillance will be even more unpleasant, painful blows on her motives, mental masochism and nervous disorder. So it is better to block them and to calm down.

It is not necessary to post tearful banal garbage

After the break you will certainly want to put in a status of anything connected with it, something like "The prospect of escape from it seemed incredible, but even more unbearable was the prospect of being left», «Sometimes some memories remain of the person, but overall ...». (Not! No need to copy and paste them his status!)

This is all, of course, spiritual impulse, and there is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings... if you want a questions and hot discussions of your relationship, you and your ex passion.

Well, if you do not want any questions, do not put such status. Listen to sad music, write a couple of verses in the table and begin to live a new life.

Take yourself to something and stop all the time to hang out on Facebook

So you've cleaned your page, they blocked the former love and, using all his willpower not post it any status, even though it hints at the breakup.

So far everything is going perfectly, and now razlogintes and forget about Facebook for some time. Go do something else: job, go for a walk, talk with friends or relatives live, or on the phone.

If you are not used to move away from the computer, do something else: read the new information, see interesting movies, after all, express your feelings in a picture in the Paint.

Users may opt out of social networking, it has been practiced in history. For example, Leo Babauta has refused for 17 monthsAnd he even liked it.

In any case, you do not need to go away for so long from the news about friends and their own news to friends. Ignore Facebook, until you feel that you have quite recovered from his spleen because of past relationships. And then everything - go ahead, to new pleasures of life.

It is not necessary stupid gestures - be yourself

After the forced exile you go back to your page to Facebook. Then (if you have not blocked former passion, but just removed from friends) start to do all sorts of actions are not peculiar to you.

Trying to post photos of themselves in an embrace with someone of the opposite sex, just to make ex jealous, write some false status.

Maybe even pretend to meet someone, when in fact it was a stranger in bar with which you embraced just like that, in a drunken stupor party, and you do not even remember how it name.

In general, if you have noticed for a such madness, see. paragraph 2 (uniquely block - so it will be quieter), and if it did not help - paragraph 7. Yes, again, I will have to go away for some time from Facebook, because you're not ready to come back and behave normally, without the "hysteria on the wall."

Understand that your unworthy gestures do not help you time to heal. No matter how much it hurt, let it be, and the memories will remain just memories, perhaps even pleasant.

In general, do not let your emotions make your page look like some kind of hell hopeless and desperate man. Better to worry crisis is Facebook, and then come back healed and ready for a new life.

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