How often do you arrange a day off for two? Vacation, where you go with your second half to forget for a while about all the problems and spend time alone with your loved one. It is not necessary to spend half their salary on expensive institution or a beach holiday in another country. Weekend alone is equally useful for both the mind and for the relationship, and if the right priorities, and for the purse.
Before you begin to think of how many will leave the joint with the second half, it is necessary to stop and think about why you need the vacation?
Reasons and objectives
In the first place, such leave satisfied to be alone. And, of course, to get rid of stress, which we get every day. That is, the two main reasons: strengthen their relationship and to get rid of stress.
From what you get stress? Maybe it everyday parenting - whatever you say, children is tiring. Or would you like to get away for a couple of days from their work and everything connected with it?
Weekend alone with your partner must give you this break - this is one of the most important points. If you are tired of taking care of the children, ask parents to sit with them, if from work - do not even think the weekend closer to the phone or the computer. This will be the key to a good rest, wherever it is held.
When you understand, from what you really want to relax on the weekend, the next step is to think about what you need on holiday.
What kind of output you want?
Just think what you would like at the weekend, that would really help you get rid of stress, and at the same time not to make new stressful situations (such as debt, for example, or problems with health).
Hint: start with the simplest options, sometimes they turn out to be the best.
For example, you can spend an excellent weekend at home. Turn off the phone and the computer, and with them, all thoughts of work and the obligation, to buy a bowl of popcorn and a whole day to watch your favorite movies with your partner.
Sometimes it is peacefully-home activities and need to get rid of the constant voltage, have a heart, and just feel comfort. On Monday, you will not have no stress, no debt, only pleasant memories.
If such activities do you think some "vegetable", check your connections. Maybe you can go to another city and a couple of days stay with friends or somebody has a free villa, where you just enjoy the fresh air and each other.
Ask around among friends, and someone will throw you an idea: discount tickets, new entertainment and other features.
Think in advance
If you are not satisfied with a simple pastime and you just dreaming other countries, a beach holiday or ski resorts, start to save in advance. This is a great practice - delay of 500 rubles a week, and when you are finally thinking of a vacation, your kitty will be enough money to not get into debt and not to provoke stressful events after vacation.
Remember - the output should give you a respite from the daily problems and the ability to be alone with his second half. Ideally, you should return from a vacation or weekend rested and ready to once again plunge into the abyss problems and solutions, and a large rental costs - this is only a return to the problems of which you so wish relax.
Let your little journey is mainly the heart, not the wallet, and you do not have to fear for the peace of mind and strength of the relationship.