Man - the slave of habits. In the apt words of Robert Kiyosaki, you can change your life by changing habits.
But what if it is not about individual and social habits? Impact on behavior, not so easy, socially accepted. Before you 9 harmful social habits.
1. complaints
Some people better not to ask how their case, as in response to complaints from the shed rain. "The chief took a wife washed down, the car broke down ..." - many confuse communication with the whining.
Of course, from time to time everyone needs to speak out, share with friends (or, on the contrary, strangers) accumulated experiences. But do not get carried away. When complaints come into the habit, it is not the search for support, as a way to attract attention.
2. Monologue instead of dialogue
Be rather than to seem - to adhere to this principle is not that at all.
People often ask me what I do. The answer is - the web-Reiter. In 70% of cases should such a reaction: "Ahh, I see. And here I am... ". In this case, all the same 70% of the cases the person did not understand what I do, and most importantly - absolutely uninteresting.
Do not be afraid to seem stupid, uneducated, or funny - ask questions if you do not understand something. The only way to build a dialogue, not to talk with him myself.
3. multitasking
"Talk to me, as I'll make it home?" - as you call such a request? Unfortunately, the modern rhythm of life is that we almost always do several things at once, and do not even think how it harms the interpersonal communication.
Talking with someone, do not be distracted by the TV, social networks, or food. Agree to talk and understand what your opponent is much more you and your stories hold comments to a photo of a new, very unpleasant. Do not strive for multi-tasking in communication - respect of his interlocutors.
4. Inattention to someone
As much as you may get tired at work, no matter how many problems may be in your life, the family needs you. You can not come home, have dinner and indifference spiked with the TV.
Little attention, only a few minutes of genuine interest to the address of a loved one, and you will be surprised at how your relationship will be more harmonious.
5. Antikomplimenty
"Looks terrible - not enough sleep or what?" "Oh, you better!" - if you think you should always tell the truth, you're wrong. Most likely, the person aware of their problems, and it is not necessary once again to remind him of them. It is not only upset him, but can spoil your relationship.
6. Coquetry
"What are you, I'm now not even wearing makeup!" - a familiar phrase? Many girls (and guys) in response to a compliment begin to flirt like this, not realizing that putting a man to express praise, in an awkward position. After all, in fact it is forced to repeat and amplify a compliment.
Much more polite just to say "thank you" affable man.
7. heckling
Nothing that I talk, while you interrupt me? Heckling - the scourge of modern culture. Break off in mid-sentence, do not give a complete idea and cry literally everything - from politicians on television pre-sales consultants in the shops.
Meanwhile, interrupting the interlocutor you are not only missing the "salt" of conversation, but also demonstrate the position of "there are two opinions: mine and wrong."
8. Indifference
There is nothing worse than indifference. After all, even the hatred must be earned.
If you see a man something good and beautiful, do not be indifferent, do not hesitate to express their emotions. Just do not be indifferent and to human shortcomings, it is better to support and try to help.
9. The desire to please all
Please everyone is impossible. Take it for granted and do not try to please everyone. Or you run the risk of losing myself, to live beyond their and other people's lives.
Be yourself. Do what you think is necessary. And remember - there will always be those who will not like it.
If you notice these bad social habits in yourself or in someone from the family, try to uproot them. And then you'll get much more pleasure from intercourse.
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