Enough to endure it: 5 signals that should end the relationship
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Parting - event of not funny, but sometimes it is necessary. If you find yourself in at least one of the symptoms listed in the article, think about it - maybe the time has come?
Each of us dreams of a perfect relationship. Sometimes this desire gets so far as we begin the most honest way to cheat yourself, wishful thinking. Teshimsya illusions, and our lives are all the time flies faster to hell.
Tips on how to build harmonious relationship- it is good, but sometimes much more useful time to discern the signs of the apocalypse looming inexorably. There are five sure signs that you have time to collect things, to change the phone number and call true friends as a psychological support group.
You do not want to go home
Previously, the prospect of group activities with a partner takes you to the delight and now from her eye twitches. You basically do not have anything against the relationship, but then, how it is being implemented, is disappointing.
You have in mind there was a pretty flattering image of the beloved, which is so far a real person, that being in his company completely kills your attachment to it and respect.
Do you practice self-destructive behavior
This refers to smoking, alcohol, or even worse, drugs, tough self-criticism, over- or malnutrition, lack of sleep, sudden outbursts of anger or something else, just as negatively affecting your physical and mental health. If your company looking for a girl you're having fun in this way more often than alone, it's clear - it is necessary to leave.
Relationships do not bring you joy
For some time now the love for you - the pain, and even anxiety, depression, sadness, anxiety and nervousness. In general, anything, but not relaxation, fun, relaxed and generous. We are sure that everything has to be this way?
You are no longer to put long-term goals
Instead, hoping that all by itself will be good, one has only to solve a couple of problems. Partner will find normal work, the child grows up a bit, and you will be able to finally say goodbye to excess weight - and here it is, happiness. I disappoint you, but no.
Life - is a series of individual moments, each of which brings with it new challenges and problems.
There is no any certain line beyond which things will magically improve, the future does not come in an instant. Every day, we take a step toward him, so that assemble into a fist all his courage and move forward.
Are you pleased to be alone
Alone with a man can be much more comfortable than in the partner company, which he absolutely does not fit. This is perhaps the most obvious and unequivocal sign that the relationship came to an end.
Your boy or girl - anchor, which, instead of giving you a sense of stability and confidence, pulls on the bottom. In this situation, the separation - the only sure way to save his life.
Bitter experience - the same experience. Tell us in the comments, what attributes have helped you to understand that the relationship is doomed.