difficulties of life
She asks, how are you doing? Always answer: "Best of all". People who are constantly complaining about the life, no one does not like at all. When you see a whiner male becomes doubly disgusting. A real man does not complain to life. He or changes the environment for themselves or adapt to reality with minimal damage to themselves and those about whom one cares. Simply put, the man chooses the action, not passive whining.
The next time when you want to dump information about the hardships of life on the companion, think, if she wants to endure next to a weakling, unable to change for the better even own a life? Do I need a woman to solve your problems, in addition to their?
failures
The problem with errors and loss in that their effects are often visible. Even if you understand the inappropriateness of talking about their own failures, companion may be aware of them and ask out of curiosity. What to do? Yes, actually, nothing. Remove pripasonny pokerfeys for the occasion and all kind show that you care about what happened as well as the wind speed at the surface of Jupiter. Do not make excuses, do not say a lot. You have everything under control, and the said event does not deserve a second of your attention.
I enjoy talking to women about how much you can not in life... Well, with due diligence "loser" may well become your official nickname.
doubts
Everything is not so obvious. Should not be confused with thoughts of doubt, because instantly make a decision, especially if the issue is complicated, nobody can. Moreover, the man will never begin to do something without thinking, without a thorough analysis. In fact, the question - is a prolonged meditation, stalled.
A woman may not be willing to take on the burden of responsibility, especially if the problematic issue, in her view, is in competence of men, and so all the brainstorming is best done alone, relying on their own intelligence and silently.
Even worse, when doubts arise on the most minor issues. A man without an opinion - pathetic, brainless tool, which constantly need to be controlled. Next to a man the woman will have to take on the role of men. Do I need it to her?
fears
Show your own woman - this is probably the best way to stop being a man in her eyes. Generally, to be afraid - this is normal. Fear triggers a whole bunch of processes that allow man to act correctly in the most unusual situations. So our ancestors survived. So we survive and we will.
If you do not run, and can only numb, then you do not protect yourself, do not protect their women, offspring, do not take a tough but the right decision at the right time. Fears can be overcome, but if you have not learned to do it, at least not compromising themselves. Recognition of cowardice - the guarantee that a woman will leave you.
former
Mention of past companions can not be at all. Even in a negative way. What is the difference, good or bad, you're talking about the former? If you say, then your thoughts are more occupied by her and another woman there is no room. At least for now.
mistakes of others
Gossip, slander, discussion man behind him - usually those involved grandmother at the door, but just nasty trait peculiar to certain individuals and why some men are called.
You have heard that girlfriends discuss-like people, and decided to apply the same technique to get closer to a woman? Well, now you - her friend. Egg-free, of course. She will ask you just one question: "Why do not you say it to his face?". Although not likely to ask, because the spare.
wounds
In a civilized society, and especially the Internet, we are now seeing the growing popularity of the "cult of eternally offended." What it is? Roughly speaking, this is when a person was hot lower back against any accidental and insignificant facts and events that do not coincide with his perception of the world. Such people consider it a duty to publicly show all the extent and area of their burns like behavior in the style of 14-year-old girl in itself is not sufficient for them to self-humiliation.
And of course, offended believe that their emotional suffering to someone interesting, but because the climb with their pain everywhere. Well, if you do it only on the Web anonymously, but an attempt to adult males show themselves vulnerable hysterical girl to a woman - it's a failure. If this wimp so reacts to nothing, what will happen to him when dealing with real problems? The mind of this man is firm, it can not hurt anything.
Achievements
Believe me, your truly great and significant achievements will be visible without your chatter about them. A real man does things to improve your life and the lives of people who care about him. If you donate money to charity, and then all talk about it, you are not done, but the hypocrite with big internal problems.
Women feel well immaturity of character and try to avoid such people. Bouncer motives come from the extremes of selfishness, and a woman does not need a man who thinks only of himself.
You've read it to the end (for which you thank you very much) and have to say that the above image of a man is out of date and is not necessary in the modern world? In part you are right. Now we do not need to fend off saber-toothed tigers, mammoths fell and drag him into the cave, but the instincts that allowed our species to survive, have not gone away. They were formed millions of years and decades of miserable relatively comfortable life does not affect them.