10 Tips newlyweds, written in 1920, but still relevant
Relations / / December 19, 2019
These simple truths, perhaps, never be out of date.
Frank Crane (Frank Crane), a Presbyterian minister, speaker and journalist.
So you just got married and happy, like waking up after a cold May beetles. Life seems honey and gentlemen, joy and fun settled in the house and become your faithful companions.
And now all ears and listen to the wisdom that I want to convey to you. It will be a little - only a fraction of that is easy to learn, remember and apply in practice. So take away his eyes shining with happiness from each other and listen carefully.
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You will ProblemsBecause you - the people. In the words of Scripture, man is born to trouble as the sparks to rush up.
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Happiness does not last forever. There will be tears, emotions and possibly broken hearts. You will walk from one corner of the room and not be able to sleep a whole night tearful eyes, staring at the ceiling, as has happened with your parents or grandparents.
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When the time comes, remember only one priceless wisdom: never allow any problem to come between you.
The most important thing here - between you. All the troubles of the world will not bother you as long as they are outside. None of the enemies that you will not harm and do not hurt, if it can not come between you.
There will be disappointments, bereavement, destroyed the sweet illusion happen failure, regret, errors, Anger and resentment. And you will be able to withstand all this - at least in volume sevenfold - if you stay for one another and not allow any trouble to seep between your hearts.
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Be partners. And let every one of you promise never to enter into a peace treaty with the enemy without the consent of the other.
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You should not have secrets from each other. Now create your secret society and swear to it. In it's just you, and the rest of the world - and even favorite in-law and toscha - there did not enter.
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Be careful with a close friend, you tell anything about his chosen one. Friends Unions have destroyed more than than anyone else. Become best friends with each other.
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Gossip about others, complain to someone and tell me everything that you want - each other. But do not start these conversations about your companion with someone else. Remember, three - it is a terrible and a huge figure when it comes to married. The angles of the eternal triangle - acute and toxic.
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When difficulties come, even financial - poverty or debts- just hug each other as much as possible. And you can laugh together about it.
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Do not let the most turning and difficult periods in life you have to separate. Do not allow this to your children when they arrive, after all, this sometimes happens.
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Remember one simple thing, record, and hang on a wall: in this world there are hardships, but they do not darken your life, if you do not stand between you.
You vowed to love each other in sorrow and in joy, till death do you part. So do it!
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