How to ruin a marriage proposal
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Let's be honest: if you are going to make an offer, you already know that she wants to marry you. And even if you screw up specifically with the engagement, it is unlikely to negate the past years together.
However, some proposals for the wedding want to forget as a bad dream. They happen when a man decides to do one of these things.
Start a drama with unexpected outcome
Men, sometimes, like to play on the contrast: I'll pretend that this is something bad, and then she would be delighted stronger. The game begins like this: "Honey, we need to talk seriously." Then you tell the rough half that so can not continue, and these relations are deadlocked.
And when it is already sure that you want to give up, pulls out the ring and asks her to be your wife. It also includes a re-enactment of a heart attack, accident or death of its own with a happy ending - such cases are too.
Why is that bad: excess stress, and your girl is worthy only of positive emotions on this day. Here are two options: either the joy of an important step will be poisoned just the beginning of a negative, or it pribot you immediately upon the resurrection from the dead.
Do not bother with the choice of the moment
You are lying comfortably on the couch. Chips, serialchik cat - Broken Idyll. Pause "Sherlock"And to make an offer now, when you are good together - it's so cool.
On the one hand, it is. On the other - there is a high probability that your future wife (in pajamas and with a tuft on the head) is not very impressed. Most often, it is important for girls to be photogenic at the time of engagement. For this reason, the marriage proposal is better to do at work, the university and the gym.
Why is that bad: per year is too many of the same days, and should add some color to life on such an occasion. And yet your lover may decide that you do not come up with a way to more original, because lazy to try it.
Banal and tasteless be creative
Video where strangers say "Come out of it", passers-by with posters and spontaneous flash mobs were the original was so in 2009. But now it's all long gone - along with wired internet, ICQ and 20 rubles gasoline.
Leave you these methods where they belong - in the nostalgic video on YouTube. This also include serenades status in social networks, the inscription on the pavement, the notes on the note paper, posters and any other surface.
Why is that bad: at least because it did millions of men before you, and not all turned out well. Maybe you have good taste and you will be able to come up with something cool, but cardboard boxes with inscriptions and inept dance marker exactly no one is impressed.
Enable food
Some guys decide that the ring in a glass of champagne - it's trite, but in a dish with food - original and fun. Even if your beloved decoration notice, she would have to climb over them with your hands, wipe it with the sauce and to pretend that it does not bother to put on smelling food on the ring finger.
Let's open secret: a rare woman does not prefer to clean hands and a classic velvet ring box.
Why is that bad: this is not very hygienic, besides your bride may bite their tongues, break off a piece of tooth or most embarrassing - simply swallow the ring.
Combine engagement with entertainment
Even if you keep teasing each other and enjoy a good laugh, a marriage proposal - a touching and delicate moment. It is unlikely that your lover will appreciate the proposal made at the bar among friends, shouting and strong shots. Amusement parks, stadiums and concerts is also not the best choice.
In the bustling atmosphere of this place is not something that is difficult to retire even for a second, but sometimes just to hear each other. Not to mention the risk of losing the ring.
Why is that bad: you can not feel the moment and to experience all the facets of emotion barely hoops pair.
Pretend to be in the heat of an argument
This is an option that no one is planning, but it is sometimes It happens. Engagement - it's always exciting. When you have already bought the ring and wait for the right moment, the stress causes you to take all the action of the second half too close to heart.
What happens: here you are preparing for "together forever" and it is difficult to clean up after your plate, do not snort?! You see it with his wife, and she nags you about ten minutes because of nonsense? And so now would be a lifetime? At some point, you can cheat yourself to such an extent that the pull ring and will bark: "That's why I took you from work - choose size!"
Why is that bad: here and do not need an explanation. Just do everything that it did not come.
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