What you need to know, entering into a relationship with an extrovert
Relations / / December 19, 2019
People all the time are able to search replies, new experiences, places, ideas, people. Referring to the last point, I do not mean rescue search operations and search activities. Speech today about the relationship between people, the focus of sight - extroverts and some of their characteristics.
Let's do something else!
Meet an extrovert - it's like that every day to discover the world anew. For a man of such warehouse is nothing more important than the new emotions, places and people - the more, the better. Therefore, you will make a lasting impression without difficulty, to go with him to the place where previously did not happen. It could be anything: a climbing wall, a master class in painting or new oriental restaurant.
Extroverts love surprises, so your choice is limited only by the lack of imagination. Also, keep in mind that the most important is the atmosphere. According to research published in the edition of The Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, extroverts, located in a pleasant environment they are able to subconsciously stimulate emission hormones of joy in the brain.
I love you! I hate you!
Unlike introvertsThat you my feelings never, under any circumstances, show, extroverts all, they say, is written on the face. They openly express their feelings on any occasion: push pathetic speech, hit in tears and conclude you to their sympathetic hug. If you liked the extrovert, believe me, you'll know about it first from him. However, all the cons he will not be silent.
Looking at the world through a prism, extroverted makes communication with an easy and relaxed, even if you Think the first time in my life. Want to know his opinion on this or that bill? Just ask and you get a straightforward answer to your question.
Friends extrovert - your friends
Extrovert hard to be alone. Surrounding people calm his mind and charged with positive energy. The larger the company, noisiest around, the better.
He likes to be the center of attention and maintain a conversation on any topic voiced, unlike introvertWhich good and alone. Well, or at least in a small circle of old friends. It should take into account the need for a daily dose of extrovert society.
- Let's go to! - Where? - Does not matter, let's go!
An extrovert will always attempt to get you out of the house. In the summer, winter - on schedule. He does not care whether there is a street on the third day of rain, or on the thermometer outside the window 30 degree heat. It is time for adventure! Moreover, your cozy comfort with a book or a laptop with a cup of coffee seems outrageous extrovert wrong, so he considers his direct responsibility to save you from captivity square meters.
Life goes on somewhere behind the wall, on the outside, it is necessary to break out at any cost. And if he is there still appeared, then we are prepared to find yourself in the company of an expert guide-evening which may well be a memorable one - most importantly, give him a free hand. By the way, when you strongly will not want to go, just honestly admit this partner. He finds and other interested persons, because he has so many friends. Remember?
I said it out loud?
Extroverts - big fans talk. No, it does not mean that they talk for hours without stopping, though, of course, they like to keep the conversation going, they can sometimes get carried away too. Note: extrovert can catch on something, if he, incensed, sboltnot superfluous. And this happens often, because they are often on emotion, but, of course, do not want to bring anyone this inconvenience.
But considered himself to ten, and choose the right word - it's not about extroverts. They have that in mind, then, and on the tongue. In dealing with an extrovert can be partly guided by the rule of Don Corleone, which states: "Nothing personal." Rest assured that you will not want to offend without due cause.
Bored me with you
Extroverts are afraid of boredom, as the devils of incense. The word "routine" calls they despair. This category applies to activities that can be described by the adjective "normal" - most likely, it is doomed to failure. If you plan to invite guests to the extrovert, the whole day to lie on the couch together, whiling away the time watching "Star Wars", it is a bad plan.
Researchers from the National Institute on Aging found that extroverts are simply more cheerful and happy life for the people, and it can have a positive impact on health. In this case, extroverts get bored with one thing, and they immediately switched to the new activities in the search for sources of emotional satisfaction.
Therefore, when planning the day that you want to spend with someone, think first about Diversity program: start with cycling, and finish the evening in some noisy pub - it the most it. Believe me, not even the extrovert feels fatigue with delight.
All excited, and I'm glad
Extroverts love to please, even if it can not enjoy yourself. Such they people - soul wide open. But do not rush to underestimate, but even more so to use this quality: extroverts recognize these frauds once or twice, because people feel very thin. If they do something to you need, then they will not rest, I got an answer "no." Sometimes it can seem quite a challenge, but here again, better to remember the words imperturbable Corleone. Show a little respect for the position of an extrovert. And do not ignore it encouraging participation, he does it from the heart.
We live only once on this earth
Extroverts need everything. Immediately. Immediately! They are mostly impatient, impulsive and willing to act, as opposed to introverts. At the same time, they are eager for immediate results and rewards for their "feats", and not so important how the prize will be the result: a trip to Goa or a glass of semi-dry. In general, extroverts are not too frugal and do not always think about the future, to save for a new car - not their style. They always want to live here and now that they do quite well.
Perhaps I myself extrovert. I would like to admit that you always feel when you begin to bother their surroundings with their conversations and sympathetic, "How are you?" And "All is well." Although sometimes it becomes a little sad: like I wanted to help. But the answer comes to mind itself: it is not necessary to help word, and deed.
What do you think about an extrovert?