How to respond to criticism

The head of Amazon, Jeff Bezos shared, how to behave, when to you speak or write something offensive.

Jeff Bezos

Entrepreneur, founder and head of the Amazon.

First, understand that not only criticized those who did not manifest itself. If you are criticized, it means that at least you are in the game. "If you are doing something at least as something fun, you will sooner or later encounter with the conviction - says Bezos. - If you can not handle it, just do not do anything interesting. "

Do not focus on revenge, it's not worth it

Let's say someone really hurt you. But do you really want to spend their time on the ground? It is better to stop, take a deep breath and continue to do their work.

Even if the criticism was totally unfair, Bezos advised to recall the words of Confucius: "By embarking on the path of revenge, dig the two graves - one for yourself."

Do not take everything close to heart

The best way to protect themselves from criticism - to develop a thick skin. You still can not stop those who like to write nasty things. Move forward, they do not deserve to spend their own nerves.

Bezos offers such exercise to the case when someone's words brought you out of yourself. Stand at the crossroads and watch the passers-by. One hundred percent, none of these people do not think about you.

Imagine what life would be like if no one could express criticism

"One of the benefits of our society - that we have cultural values ​​that allow people to say terrible things. No one is forcing you to invite them to his guests, just let them speak "- advises Bezos.