21 book on how to build harmonious relationships with others

Books about the relationship with your loved one

1. "Active search", Aziz Ansari, Eric Klinenberg

The joint work of the famous comedian Aziz Ansari and sociologist Eric Klinenberga search the topic of happiness resulted in the present study. The result is a nezanudnaya instruction for those who are looking for love and wants to learn more about relationships in the modern world.

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2. "The paradox of passion," Dean Delis, Cassandra Phillips

classical book psychology of relations, which will help bring back the romance and passion of the former. The authors, a clinical psychologist and writer, explains why there is disharmony, as it interferes with partners and what to do to create a union of equal and loving people.

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3. "Hold me tight," Sue Johnson

Sue Johnson - Professor of Clinical Psychology and an expert on the emotional-focused therapy (EFT). From the book you will learn about the basic principles of this technique, which will help develop the skills of communication within couples.

Seven dialogues explain in detail what the critical moments experienced by those who are building relationships, and what lessons should be removed from the crises.

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4. «Fuck love!"Michael Bennett, Sarah Bennett

Chartered psychologist Michael Bennet and writer Sarah Bennett offer us to engage with Looking for love and passion. Instead - to try to find someone who will help you develop your best qualities. And here come in handy all the tricks of professional headhunting.

The book presents the working methods, as well as interesting examples from practice.

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Books about the family relationships

5. "Do not yell at the kids! How to resolve conflicts with their children and to do so they have listened, "Daniele Novara

In family relations is difficult to do without a conflict, after which it may be alienation. Psychologist Daniel Novara tells how to learn how to survive such situations.

Practical advice given in the book will help, in particular, to establish relationships with adolescents and taught to control himself at times when patience is running out.

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6. "How to help a child grow up," Robert Winston Laverne Antrobus, Tereza Day and other

The child growsAnd this process causes many parents to panic. This perfectly illustrated book contains a detailed description of the stages of growing up the child, the acclaimed psychologists and educators.

And it will become an indispensable tool for those who do not know where to start a dialogue with your teen and how to discuss difficult topics.

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7. "Emotional intelligence of the child," John Gottman

John Gottman, a psychology professor at the University of Washington, more than 40 years studying married couples with children and knows how important it is to learn to understand the emotions of the child.

The methods described in the book of emotional intelligence can help the children of the parents to maintain friendly relations with him, and teach coping with difficult situations.

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8. "Let them go," Julie Litkott-Hames

Great love and fear for children and prevents parents and younger individuals. Author, speaker of TED and the mother of two teenagers, 10 years working with young people 17-20 years.

Julie Hames-Litkott not just seen as parents- "helicopters" deprive teens opportunities to fully mature. And therefore offer alternative methods of education. Their use will give parents peace of mind, and children - freedom.

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Books about relationships with others

9. "On the same wavelength," Amy Banks, Lee Hirschman

Neurobiology - our key to a perfect relationship with others and their full potential. This convinced bestselling author, psychiatrist and writer Amy Banks Lee Hirschman.

They talk about the four important neural pathways from which depends directly on our relationships with other people. Practical advice given in the book will help find peace and self-confidence.

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10. "Manage your boss - it's okay," Bruce Tulgan

Bruce Tulgan, an expert on leadership and management, the winner of several industry awards, is a step by step plan to build relationships with the boss. After all, the leader can and should be managed for effective teamwork.

This book will help to solve many common problems that arise in organizations of any level.

11. "The habit of working together," Twyla Tharp

The world-famous American choreographer Twyla Tharp shares his own experience of successful communication with people. On the set of examples from various fields of activity, he shows how to build relationships and forge work in different conditions. The author also reveals the secrets of successful interaction with toxic partners.

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12. "Do not growl at the dog! The book is about training people, pets and yourself, "Karen Pryor

How to get kids to do their homework on their own, to teach her husband to clean socks in the basket and receive a bonus at work every quarter? Answers knows Karen Pryor, a scientist and expert on taming.

The book presents the original exercise in which everyone will be able to change the relationship with others. Among the other advantages of the bestseller - easy language and easy to understand examples.

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13. "Science communication. How to read the emotions, to understand the intentions and find a common language with people, "Vanessa Van Edwards

Vanessa Van Edwards writes books, conducts trainings and studying people's actions. She knows exactly what our principles of conduct help or hinder us feel confident with others.

Author gives actionable advice on every day: how to start a conversation at a party, how to find a common language with colleaguesHow to communicate with his superiors and friends.

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14. "Please say" no. " Secrets of professional negotiators, "Jim Camp

Jim Camp has created its own system of effective negotiations, which are now thousands of people use successfully throughout the world. He knows exactly how to speak properly "no" to the surrounding do what you want them to.

And yet the author tells how to negotiate in order to achieve goals, and resist manipulation interlocutors.

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Books about the relationship with oneself

15. "Agreement with... and other worthy opponents," William Ury

In life, we often hinder our own reactions to those or other emotions. William Ury, co-founder of the Harvard negotiation project provides working methods to achieve compromises with itself. These skills will help to eliminate internal conflict and to improve communication with other people.

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16. "I was not aware," Heidi Grant Helvorson

Happiness - is when you understand. But often we wrongly interpret other people's reactions and mistakenly decide that no one is interested. A social psychologist and an expert on motivation Heidi Grant Helvorson shares the secrets of a successful life, and tells how to change the signals the body to improve the attitude of others.

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17. "Emotional Intelligence", Daniel Goleman

The famous American psychologist and science journalist Daniel Goleman confident that our emotions are much more important than we think. Anyone who knows how to manage them, achieves more in life and often becomes a successful one who comes in the wake of sadness, wrath and fear.

Change yourself help author practical tips, examples from his life and stories of famous people.

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18. "How to talk to anyone," Mark Rhodes

Entrepreneur and business coach Mark Rhodes shares the rich experience in dealing with all kinds of people. He is convinced that experiencing fear of socializing with others - this is normal. And it turns out, this fear is quite easy to overcome if you know some tricks.

Author of the book will teach you how to deal with difficult situations and talk anywhere with anyone.

Books about the unhealthy relationship

19. "Assertiveness. Speak. To say "no." Set boundaries. Get a grip, "Patrick King

Patrick King, author and business coach, teach competently defend the interests and protect its borders. And it is a real practical guide for the one who suffers from a chronic form of ownership helpfulness.

The author also offers readers a unique 27-day plan for emergency strengthen its borders.

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20. «It's Complicated"Harriet Lorner

Resentment, frustration, anger - these emotions poison the lives of the couple. PhD and psychotherapist Harriet Lorner explains how to return happiness and enjoy the fellowship. Her tips will gain wisdom and self-confidence.

With the author, you also understand why it is so important to be able to hear and listen to and what actually they want from us, our loved ones.

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21. «On hook. How to break the cycle of unhealthy relationships"Oud Dalsegg, Inger Vesse

Domestic violence, bullying at school or at work - from this book you will know who is to blame and what to do when all this is happening with you.

Aud Dalsegg reporter and associate Inger Vesse describe various types of psychopathic personalities and methods for their detection, and operating methods are out of difficult situations.

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