7 simple things that make family life happy
Relations / / December 19, 2019
We all dream of a happy relationship, such as in the movies. But in real life is often the case that people do not have time to spend a year and already disappointed in each other, they get bored. And not finding common interests, they have less and less time together and eventually leave.
Why it happens? Because we do not do anything in order to strengthen the relationship.
Somehow, it seems that everything has to go his own way and without our intervention. Unfortunately, it happens very rarely. Happy family life - it is also a job. The work primarily on themselves.
In my relationship with my wife it was also a period when it seemed that relations are deadlocked, and it was all over. By parting we kept only child. And in order to preserve the family, we decided to start all over again - the new rules and with a clean slate.
I will share with you a few simple tips that have kept our family life, and make us happier than we were before. Believe me, it is very simple things that we have agreed to do every day, and, as time has shown, this is exactly what was missing before our relationship. These things brought us together and made to feel again that we are one family.
1. We started dinner with
Previously we ate separately, but now dinner has become a kind of ritual, when we sit down at the table with the whole family. We agree, when they realized that during the day we have little time to be together, because everyone is busy with their chores.
Sometimes we go to a restaurant, but more often having dinner at home. Dinner was not just an occasion for us to satisfy your hunger. This is the real reason to get together, talk about how the day passed, and know each other better. This simple habit brought us closer and made the relationship even stronger.
2. We were more likely to remember about each other
Again, we used very little talking to each other on weekdays. Only a few minutes in the morning before work and at night before bedtime. It was as though we communicated with colleagues more and more frequently than with each other.
Realizing this, we decided to call up a couple of times a day just to say to each other a few pleasant words.
It would seem a trifle, but even a simple text message received from a loved one, uplifting.
I first had the idea to do so, but very soon this habit was passed on to my wife. Try it and see what it brings.
3. We started fooling around together
Previously, we always played a game called "Adult." In this game, there was no place meaningless actions and antics made only for the sake of a good laugh. As I see it now, it makes our life dull. Believe me, one of the most important features that we're looking for in your partner, a good sense of humor. Without it, we quickly tired of each other.
Life - it is a very serious thing. His strict and sustained in every way we conduct it only becomes more complicated. Allow yourself silly things just for fun. After all, the relationship without laughter reminiscent of a plant without water, which soon dies.
4. We began to listen more to each other
Did you meet partners who are not that do not listen, but do not even look at each other? When one says something, the other delves into the phone or just looking out the window. These people are all kind show that you would like to be somewhere else, but not at the same table with his chosen one. What holds these people together - a mystery.
I have noticed that the most candid and enlightening conversations happen when you do not expect: in bed late at night, the other at a wedding or at the bar, the crowd of strangers. And if you delay this conversation for later, you risk never hear those important things that should know to make the relationship better.
Find an opportunity to listen to each other, even when it seems to you that this is not the time or place.
5. We have become increasingly embracing each other
I like the guy, at first it seemed like a silly idea, but after a few wives phrases that outside the bedroom I do not show to her attention, I began to mend.
Nothing supernatural. Just became increasingly embrace her, kiss goodbye, take the hand while walking. As I learned later, the women, in addition to sex, you need some kind of physical manifestation of man's love. It makes them feel happy.
6. We began to wish each other good night
It may look obvious, but ask yourself, when was the last time you wanted a quiet night his half? Such minor at first glance, tokens make relations more complete.
Perhaps what I say will seem extreme, but still you'd better remember it. Life - an unpredictable thing, and you never know, when you say goodbye for the last time. Too many would give anything for the chance to once again say goodbye with the closest people.
Just think about it for a minute.
7. We have supported each other throughout
Just think, one of the most important reasons to be with a man - is his support. I would say even more categorical: no support - no real relationship. For all of us it is important that close was a man who will support us even when it seems that the whole world turned their backs on us.
Happiness comes when a loved one is transformed into your most loyal fans who support you in everything and always.
And it does not matter whether we are talking about support for the upcoming interview, or is it just a desire to approval lain in bed all day.