6 most common mistakes women make in relationships

Error 1. Long playing hard to get

On the women's forums can be read often that man by nature - a hunter, and each no self-respecting woman should at all times be a little inaccessible: fast production is not so desirable and interesting. many men resemble, in turn, that they are not hunters, and ordinary people, who also have complexes, fears and experiences. Sometimes, for a young person to make the first step is not as easy as it seems from the outside, and indeed in a relationship is all terrible: both women and men.

How to avoid

For men (especially early on) it is very important to feel the return of interest in his person. Few young people are willing to knock long at the closed door and persistently wait for the object of their interest finally answer at least some return. Girls, if you're someone really like it - do not be afraid to show it, try to take the initiative themselves and, please, do not overdo with playing hard to get. The main thing in any case - a sense of proportion.

Error 2. Lack of faith in their own beauty

I often meet wonderful worthy girls who are very We are not confident. Perhaps this is due to the fact that all used to compare myself with the photo models on the covers of glossy and friends from social networks, where it is assumed to brag about achievements and failures do not advertise. At the same time, I often see mediocre persons who are so idolized themselves that make everyone around to believe in their own attractiveness. In relations with men it works in a similar way.

How to avoid

People believe what you are casting a. It is impossible to constantly engage in public self-flagellation and talk with men only about their shortcomings and complexes: sooner or later they will believe it. Psychologists do not knowingly always call to start with yourself.

Love yourself. In no case do not speak and do not think badly about yourself.

Error 3. The desire to dissolve completely in the man

Some girls tend to dive into a relationship with this fanaticism. They are obsessed with their men and their interests. Being together for 24 hours a girl is vital, and existence without the young man is altogether intolerable.

It is curious that with such behaviors girls inevitably fall into the trap. It would seem that men so much attention should be flatter. However, the absence of their lives, their own interests and friends as a girl and the young man had a detrimental effect on any relationship.

How to avoid

People, regardless of sex, want to see an equal partner with its own opinion and lifestyle. You have also had some life before meeting with your companion? Do not forget about her, meet with their friends and engaged in their hobbies. And yet men are very appreciate and strongly welcome the female lead. Feel free to suggest.

Error 4. Preoccupation with himself and his career

It seems that this error men commit more frequently. However, as practice shows, the girls who are not limited to the role of housewife and homemaker, fall into this trap is not at all rare. Career ambitions, rich creative life, sitting with girlfriends - excuse not to show up at home and not spend time with a loved one can be a lot. Meanwhile, many men admit that they do not always feel needed, as their companions, and without them it is normal.

How to avoid

We all want to see us interested in our desire to hear, and our presence in the life of another person valued. Of course, the presence of her life the girl - it's good (see previous paragraph). But here too, the measure is necessary: ​​women often preoccupation solely on his own life and does not allow to build a healthy partnership.

Think not only about what is important to you. Relationship - a story about "we" and not about "me."

Error 5. resentment on the part of the girl hushing

Any, even the most beautiful human relationship can be ruined if between people is not normal communication. conflicts and misunderstandings in the relationship in some sense inevitable, it is a natural part of our lives. Problems start when girls are practicing long silence, did not give voice to their desires (including sex) and ignore the insults.

How to avoid

As practice shows, it is better not to avoid conflict, but to try to resolve them. The main thing - to enable both sides to speak and be heard. Men do not always feel a semitone and understand the allusions are so fond of women, and absolutely do not exactly know how to read the thoughts of others (no one can). Therefore, dear girl, if you do not like something - tell me about it. Artist - also say men will be grateful.

Error 6. Stories about past relationships

Sometimes the girls start talking about their past relationships are not for the sake of a comparison with the current men, but men are so constituted that we inevitably begin to try on everything. In this awkwardness can not be avoided in both cases: when the former young people's praise and when they are scolded. Disrespectful comments about past relationships make men think about why these relationships in general have taken place in the life of their beloved. Rave reviews, on the contrary, raise suspicions that the girl's heart more occupied last man.

How to avoid

The recipe is simple: not a lot of talk about your ex-men. The less you know the better you sleep. Live in the present, not the past.

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