How do you know that you truly love someone
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Blogger Chris Gage was your list Right symptoms and things that are just confusing.
1. You always think about that person. This infatuation. If you constantly about someone you think you can not concentrate on other important things. And this is a problem. True love fit into the life, and does not capture it.
2. You constantly yearn for a partner, or you can not live without it any day. See above.
3. This man means to you all. Same.
4. You can not imagine a future without the object of their feelings. If you try, you can imagine anything. For example, you moved to Switzerland and there grazing goats. Only it does not mean that you really need such a turn. And in the phrase "When I think about the future, I always know how he / she helps me cope with anything that would no matter what happens, "" My future without him / her just does not make sense, "the object of love can be easily replaced a new job or pet dog.
The problem is that we have turned love into a form of escapism. We measure the potential partners on how they fit into our fantasies.
Once this has nothing to do with love. So yes, imagine a partner in their future, but not because he "makes life more interesting."
5. This man - the one about whom you always dreamed of. See above.
6. You want to partner was always there. You obviously have never been to a healthy long-term relationships. Yes, you should want to see her lover or beloved. But not always! Sometimes you need to stay alone with myself, Work or do other things. Do not think that you do not love someone simply because from time to time want to be alone.
7. You will do anything to impress the lover. It's frightening. And why are you trying so hard? Love - not to make a good impression.
8. You are afraid to lose this man. In a healthy love has no fear of loss. This attachment.
9. Are you jealous. And this is again an attachment, not a mature love.
10. This man is beautiful. It's probably just flatters your vanity. And, in general, it is very foolish.
11. He is kind. Well, it's great that your emotional needs met. But this only shows that your partner deserves love. Not the fact that you have for him it was her.
12. You just know. This is the most useless answer in life. Do not repeat for other such nonsense, calling it romantic, because you do not have a normal explanation.
Signs, which you should rely with caution
1. The time you have spent with your partner - the best of the day. It depends on how things are going with the others. Well, if you're happy with your life partner, and just makes it even better. Bad if you all do not like, and chat with him for you — The only outlet. It's time to go their lives.
2. You put the interests of the partner above all else. Well, if you really care about his wants and needs and you pay attention to them without destroying itself. Bad if you sacrifice your needs or assess themselves only by their ability to make the partner happy.
Signs that he / she likes you as a person
1. Subject of your feelings are not like everyone else. Here he or she is lucky.
2. Do you enjoy not only its appearance. Congratulations, all is not lost for you.
3. You want this man happy. Fine. It would be nice to wish happiness to most people.
4. With it, you are ready to try something new. Wow, you have found the person with whom you are comfortable and pleasant.
5. Partner inspires you to be better. Role models inspire too, but because they do not like.
Signs of true love
1. You have decided to love. Love - it's action, not a feeling. It is a conscious decision that you taking again and again.
2. You show love. You invest and endeavors. You do not deliberately inflict pain. You do not revenge, not manipulate, do not lose heart. partner needs you do not irritate. You're not trying to take all of his time. You feel good about yourself without the constant belief in reciprocity.
You appreciate the point of view of the partner. You learn the language in which he expresses love. You make decisions, taking into account their interests and needs. Do you support. You take care and take care.
3. You show love, even when you do not want. It is easy to think that you love, when in a relationship going smoothly. But much more important time when the difficulties begin.
- You love when disagreements during your goal - to find a compromise, and not to reveal the winner.
- You love, if you do not take the word partner in arms, no doubt about it. You do not lead the score. Does not harbor a grudge. Do not deprive your partner's love as a punishment.
- I enjoy when seeking to understand rather than be understood in the first place. You listen and appreciate what you have shared. And do not fall out immediately own problems.
- You love when conduct yourself as if you are with a partner on the same team. You listen. You're going to make concessions. You apologize. You forgive.
- You love, even when it hurts. You respect the partner's needs, even if they include separation.
Ask yourself the question "How to Love", and not "How do you know that you fell in love." It should distinguish between the concept of "being in love" and "love", because the first - it's just infatuation, in no way connected with this feeling. Love - this action. Always.
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