20 short thoughts that interfere with success
Motivation Inspiration / / December 19, 2019
What you need to ensure that our most cherished desire to become a reality? Actually, quite a bit - I think correctly. After all, in the head is formed on the installation success or failure of the realization of the fact of what we dream.
You can not change anything if you do not change your mind.
If you dream about something good, the first thing to do - learn to think positively and to discard all negative, to which many of us have long been accustomed. Collected here are 20 of the most common dangerous thought: if possible, avoid them.
1. My dreams and goals can wait.
How often we put off for tomorrow what we want so much, prioritizing is not in favor of personal desires. Perhaps because of the fear of failure, criticism or misunderstanding of others. And in fact, we should be afraid of taking the time to things that are unimportant to us. If you want to live the life that you can be proud of, just stop talking about their dreams and to take for their implementation already.
2. I have no time.
In fact, this phrase may mean by a more polite, or perhaps a naive way of saying "it's not so important to me."
3. I'm talented enough.
Instead of constantly thinking about the talent and genius, Think about the importance of practice and work on yourself. They are the key to realization of your dreams. People who have the perseverance and patience to learn, to make mistakes and grow, always succeed in what they want.
4. This problem is too complex.
In fact, the problem lies in the fact that it exists, and that you too think about it. Just let it go and move forward.
5. I'm not ready yet.
No one feels ready when an opportunity to do anything. This is evident as a great opportunity to grow emotionally and make intellectually. they still make us come out of their comfort zone, and therefore can not feel prepared for what gives destiny. But if we do not use this chance in the same second, it may never happen again. Just do it, despite the uncertainty and fear. It's simple.
6. I could do a whole lot better.
Life - a struggle, and even if you could not get what they wanted, then at that point you no longer need a friend. Regret and self-torture did not do any good.
7. I am a loser.
This failure - no attempt to do anything. Everything else is just practice. This is fine if you are confused, we just need to give myself the opportunity to rest and never give up. Some things take time, and with each step you get closer to achieving its goals.
8. I want everything to be easy.
The struggle and the difficulties - a natural way to make a difference. After all, you need to destroy the old, to have a new in its place. Therefore there was a fear does not mean that you fail. You are on your way to great success.
9. In others, it turns out easier than I do.
If you want to succeed, stop compare yourself with others. On the side we see only the result of human effort and never know what difficulties he had to cope for this.
10. I have nothing to rejoice.
You think that you do not have anything for you might be grateful? Throw away these negative thoughts and thank fate for the fact that you have managed to achieve, if not, then avoid today. Regardless of whether your glass is half empty or half full, say thank you that you have a glass and there is something in general is.
11. I have too many shortcomings.
Incorrect statement. When you feel comfortable such as you are, even your flaws look beautiful. And once accept their own shortcomings, no one can use it against you.
12. I do not support that I need.
Around us are enough critics. Instead, be a mastermind. After all the excitement after the failure is much more valuable than the widespread praise after success. Once you start rooting for the other, they not only feel it, but will express the same support you.
13. I have no time for anyone else.
Alone, you will not achieve much. Instead, build your relationships and positive communication with people around us today. learn to speak "thanks""I love you", "I'm sorry", "I'm proud of you", and everything else that you feel toward others. It will be nice to not only the recipients, such communication will strengthen and you.
14. My intimacy can wait.
If you never stop to enjoy the fact that there is someone close to you, most likely, in the future you will realize that putting off some of the most important things and left with than. A close relationship can not quickly gain or earn, they must build on the grain of every day.
15. I broke my promise just once.
If you want long-term success and good relationships with other people, then you do not have this "one time". Liability and your promises are essential, there can be no compromise.
16. One little lie does not hurt.
So it seems only at first glance. And in fact, a lie - a vicious disease that develops with lightning speed. If you do not want to turn into a liar and you want to be fair both to themselves and to other people, do not lie. Even if nobody knows about it.
17. They care about me, but too busy to fulfill their promises.
No matter how difficult it is to understand, but, most likely, you simply surround the wrong people. It is worth to remember one thing: if you're an important person, he always finds a way to fulfill his promise without any excuses.
18. I never cry.
In fact, their tears do not need to be ashamed of. After all, without these emotions we become robots. Crying also helps to discharge and release something that worries us so much. It develops our spirituality and contains the basic principles of humanity.
19. I refuse to forgive.
To move forward, you need to learn to let go of the past and to forgive all wrongs. Otherwise, the old miseries will always haunt you, and unpleasant situations - repeated.
20. My heart too many times was smashed to tolerate risks again.
Sometimes it seems that we are worth much more than getting used to. But instead of feeling sorry for yourself, find the courage to let go and memories, no matter how it was difficult and scary. The only way to change your life in the future, instead of clinging to the past.
Of course, these are only some of all possible thoughts that may prevent us from realizing our most cherished dreams and goals. Tell us with any negative thoughts and patterns have to fight for you personally?
See also:
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