It does not depend on the opinions of others

What we were not independent, it is still important to have the opinion of others. This view can greatly affect our lives if given him a lot of attention. Human nature is such that we want to be loved and respected. But is it worth for this constantly look back at all? The main thing that should remember - do not worry about what people think around and clog your head thinking about it. No one says you have to score at all and do what they like. Listen to the opinion of the people important to you, ponder it, and only then decide how to proceed. After all, your home is not always right. If you still can not get rid of the yoke of public opinion and blame, then let's work out a way of thinking that will help get rid of it.

People do not pay so much attention to you as you think

The people around you, for the most part, are passionate about their business and concerns. They have their own life, which excites them much more than yours. If your interests and views and intersect at some area, then it does not happen as often as you think. Just think, if you often pay attention to the fact that others are dressed in? Do they have a shirt stained? Will there be a passing girl tightening on tights? I bet that you either do not think about it, or spend it not more than a couple minutes. So that's around doing the same thing.

It should not have to worry

What they think about you around - it's just their business. You must not touch it in any way. Even if you know someone's opinion of himself, it still does not make you a different person and will not change your life, in most cases. The opinions of others can affect you only if you let this opinion be decisive in your life. But this should not happen. You can not control the opinions of others, do not pay him much attention and focus on yourself.

You are unique, like no other

Remember once and for all. Do not change yourself for others. Once you allow the House of Soviets in your head, you cease to be themselves. Only the people around you a lot, and you are one. For all the love can not be. And, in the pursuit of the company, you will beget a Frankenstein, which, though a little bit, but like everyone.

Instead, just be yourself and remember that you are the only one in the world. Exactly the same is not found. Cherish their uniqueness. Respect yourself. Then people will start to respect you.

Why do you still listen to them

Much does your life change if someone does not agree with you or tell you what you are saying that something is not right? Are you ready to change every time someone says that you are doing wrong? I think no. The next time you become very sensitive to the opinions of others, you just think, and whether it will be just as important in a week. If a comment in your direction will excite you more than an hour, everything is empty.

You are obviously not a telepath

If you do not have any super-powers and the magic ball you do not show anything, then you are unlikely to know what people think. If you are an ordinary person, then how do you know what's going on in the minds of others? The only problem is that you think that all the thoughts of the people around you are fixated only on you. Selfish and smacks of something unhealthy, is not it? Do not worry about the opinions of others, as long as you have not learned to read their minds.

Be honest with yourself and live the present

Only it depends on you, how you feel each day. Whether you want to experience constant fear and excitement at the thought that society does not approve of your action? Stop thinking about it. Do not worry that someone in the past, did you note or what people think of you bad. Live here and now and do not look around. Breathe in deeply and do not forget that only you are responsible for your thoughts and actions. The only way you can be happy. The only way you will realize that each person has their opinion, and only you choose, it will impact on you or not.

Surround yourself with people who will take you

Support is necessary for all. It's great when you have friends who agree with you and support you in any endeavor, even if your relatives against. Remember that in order to maintain physical and mental health, you have to choose: either to abandon dream on the advice of others, or surround yourself with people who will encourage you to seek his way.

Others are also concerned about public opinion

You are not paranoid, and you are not alone. People around you too worried about what people think about them. So, the next time someone starts to criticize you, you put yourself in his place. Perhaps you have done what this man has long dreamed of and did not dare to do. And now you just want to return to earth. Remember this, and then you will be easier to bear criticism and understand the motives of actions of others.

Just be yourself. Be honest with yourself and admit that you are surrounded by the same people, just like you. They also have problems, they also care about the criticism, they are not perfect. There is no perfect people who never make mistakes. Just someone tripping over time, stops a lifetime, while others, stepping over his mistake, it should be to his dream. Let public opinion will not stop in your development, and you still will show to the world what's what.

And you are dependent on the opinions of others?