10 tips to help you finally realize our plans

1. Create a presentation of yourself

Eva Katz in his book "30 of the rules of this dreamer," advises to treat yourself as a project. We are so constituted that increasingly willing to take other people's problems more responsible than to his. So, before the arrival of guests in some apartments there is a hell of a general cleaning, which people did not do for themselves over the years.

Proceed differently: we are become themselves producers otnesomsya to himself as a business project. Do you want to be an actor or a dream of a new job, an apartment is more, losing eight kilograms - no matter for what purpose you can not start moving.

As soon as you create of yourself project, you magically change the attitude to his own problems. The project - it is not you, but the real work. The work to which we must be taken responsibly.

How to do it? Create a presentation about the imagined on the theme "The most successful man in the world / people in the category ...". As if you pass the casting for the show and have to talk about myself as a hero held. In the presentation you want to add photos (body, home, car, family), a description of success (for example, you have written a number of books, received "

Oscar" etc). The format can be fabulous. The main thing - from himself to make a successful project and a very detailed description of it.

This exercise will help you clearly see yourself in 10 years, to try on this image and use it in the future. The essence of the presentation is in the detailing. In the dry facts of the life of a successful person. This is the main idea of ​​a personal project, and with whom you'll be working on. You just will have no choice.

2. Start playing

Imagine your life - is a martial art or a game, whose purpose - to overcome obstacles and achieve results. Once accept rules of the game, you get used to the discomfort that accompanies the constant feeling of dissatisfaction.

You will never be able to do everything is perfect: mistakes are inevitableIt is important to understand and accept it. Although they often hinder us. The good news is that each assumption you mistake has something to teach you. There are no boundaries in the learning process. you will soon realize the futility of approach "is not easy" (the familiar excuse, right?), or "it unfair ", or" I can not handle this "and see that persistence and purposefulness bring fruit.

3. Prioritize (finally!)

You are able to get almost anything you want, but you can not get everything. Life is like a huge buffet, bursting with such exquisite dishes you do not even dreamed of trying.

Target selection is sometimes means that you have to give up on what you want to get what you want even more.

And it is here that some fall into a stupor: they dare not refuse for fear of opportunity to miss something else, pursuing too many goals at the same time and as a result do not achieve little or nothing.

Do not despair. And do not be confused by the abundance of options. You are able to get much more than what you need for happiness. Make a choice that determines the priorities and go boldly forward.

4. Do not fly alone

The best moments in life we ​​usually surrounded by people. Through events, worth living, we go together with friends and family.

"Together, we must be better than apart," - that is the fundamental premise of any relationship.

When your wife is there, you should be happier than without it. To work or to make progress together with a colleague, you must be happier than to work alone. It seems self-evident, but it is not so easy it is to implement. Maybe, support - what you need to quick Start. Find this person in their environment - their own "magic pinatelya".

5. "Please," the screenplay

Submit your plan of action as a script for the film, where you visualize who and what makes for a certain time. First, determine the basic provisions (such as "hire the most talented"), and then check them.

Repelled from the overall picture and highlight the specific tasks and the time frame (e.g., "in Over the next two weeks to choose a specialist, who will find this the most talented employees "). When you do this, inevitably have to cost problems, time and personnel, so continue to adjust the plan until all the details of the mechanism will not work well-adjusted.

6. drink a cup of tea

Seriously. In one known Buddhist Zen master dialogue often responds to complex philosophical questions of his pupil as "Go drink some tea." To fully comprehend the spiritual culture of Asia, you need to understand the value that is traditionally a tea. SUMMARY tea ceremony - boil water to make tea and drink it. Nothing more.

In these words is hidden the whole mystery of tea culture, the essence of its nature. And in their everyday, not as a strict form of tea ceremony is suitable to make a pause in our daily vain and think, where do we go (and we want to go there anyway). "Drink tea and forget about the noise of the world" - say in China.

7. Think out 20 awards

To take action, you need a magical cup (or whatever you want there). Invent yourself a reward, you will get, when do the first step. And the next - when the second. they only have to be different.

If reward themselves the same manner pleasure clogged channels and the effect of compensation is reduced.

Someone brings pleasure sweet eklerchik. Every day, throwing a eclairs ineffective. And if you eat eclair once every 20 days, it will be a real pleasure. Each person should have their own list of benefits. And they need to be alternated. Make a list of things that you really love, and let in the list will not be less than 20 points.

8. Correctly formulate the problem

The correct formulation of tasks designed to reduce the intensity of mental rumination, stop the endless thinking through problems in a circle. Generally, the words have a very strong influence on the person (based on this neuro-linguistic programming and psychotherapy).

Therefore, what kind of words you choose in the formulation of the problem, it depends largely on how and when the task is done. Often, after the replacement of the verb she almost immediately performed, although this could be in the list of cases for several weeks and postponed for later. Try. Suddenly, this is your option.

9. Do not try to overcome all the fears

Major fault: "First, will deal with fears, and then begin to act." If you have the impression that there are only just desperate brave adventurers and lovers sway the good old values, then it is all true. Well, not everything. True - only about values, because they are just useful to check for durability. In fact, everyone is afraid of. Wait for the moment when it is not scary, it is not worth it.

Surprisingly, the changes often start with fear. With great fear that life will pass, and we do not even give themselves a chance to fight for a dream.

10. Accept the fact that you do not know the future 100%

Recognize that you may not know a better way of doing things, and your ability to cope with what you do not know is more important than what you know. Most people take inefficient solutionsBecause they are so confident in their own right, that just can not afford to see the alternatives.

Those who adhere to the principle of absolute open-minded, know that to ask the right questions to other smart people to find out their opinion is more important than to have the answers to everything. They are aware that it is impossible to make a good decision, not having stayed for a while in a state of ignorance. Since this very area of ​​uncertainty and ignorance is much bigger and more interesting than anything that any of us know.

Choose the method of the soul, and forward - to act. Right now.

Based on the book "Jedi technique», «principles», «45 person tattoos», «30 of the rules of the dreamer», «The maximum charge», «Never ever», «Do not miss out on your life».

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