Why not sort things out through emails and SMS

Quite a lot of people take most of their information visually. Our ears can hear the sweet voice that promises us manna from heaven, but a keen eye constantly monitors that actually tells the body. It is difficult to grasp all the intonations and emotions when we hear only the voice of a man, but he himself is not visible. Now imagine that you not only do not see the source, but do not hear it. You just read - SMS, email or conversation in the messenger.

What happens in pairs that most of the emotions pass each other in writing?

During this correspondence is lost virtually all the emotions. How to transfer regret, love and passion, overflowing, care and tenderness? Most people are not able to clearly express their thoughts on paper, then what to talk about feelings? With the help of these texts clearly and well transmitted to only one - the indifference and dryness.

But my assumptions based more on emotion than on scientific knowledge, there are facts confirmed by scientists.

Due to a recent study of how a pair communicate with each other through digital conducted at the University of Brigham Young, the researchers found that men communicate with their soul mate via text messages more often than women. Of course, since it is much easier to avoid long explanations and they can safely ignore the hysterical sms his girlfriend, while the hysterical girl alive is much more difficult to ignore.

Also, these studies have shown that if a couple is too abuses communication through messages, the quality of their relationship falls.

Of course, this does not mean that you should stop writing to each other affectionate and loving messages. In these same studies have shown that when partners send affectionate messages to each other, they feel that such way their relationship becomes stronger, and, most interestingly, the one who first sent the message with "Musi-pusi" feels it's better.

But that is not worth doing in conversation, so it's sort things out and solve problems. Even in the business world if there are differences in the correspondence, both sides (or one that is more interested) try to assign a personal encounter and solve problems. The same applies to the correspondence. You can not put into words all the emotions. Few people are so owns the word that is able to convey everything to the smallest detail. As a result, for the solution of the conflict in personal relationships too little information.

The only plus in this version of personal clashes - is the ability to write an angry letter, and then erase it, to calm down and forget. Or if you really want to seem like a pig and put the final full stop and, at the same time and avoid the distribution too emotional second half.

Remember, when it comes to correspondence in the style of "my cat slept today?", You can fill each other's likes messages, but if you had a falling out and decided to make it up or figure out the relationship in order to save them - only the personal contact!

How do you prefer to sort things out with your partner and find out who is right and who - no?