How not to lose faith in yourself, when the whole world is against
Tips Motivation / / December 19, 2019
In every life there are difficult times. Especially when you are at a crossroads and need to make the most difficult choice - to continue to fight or succumb to external circumstances and the general mood. It is difficult to insist on when things are not glued, and the surrounding twist a finger at a temple behind you. When no one but you, do not believe in the success of the case, and it seems that the whole world is against you.
However, this is not a reason to give up and throw that was created and grow with such zeal. A few tips from Anne-Sophie Reinhard, a private entrepreneur, blogger and podcaster, reminded me that if you miss the ball once, the second time you will already know how to prevent like.
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I have decided to address this topic because I think that each of us have been times in my life. Someone stood, and someone gave way and dropped. And now, perhaps, biting his elbows, not doterpel not defraud, not proved.
According to the inexorable statistics do not take into account the miracle, the success rate of start-ups is negligible compared to the failures. So let's assume that this reminder of the desperate and willing to give up;)
Way of thinking
It knows even little children - if you think about all the bad, then so be it. If you want to feel like a failure, and no matter what do not fit, then so be it. Moreover, if you are very diligent in vzhivetes role, believe it around. And who wants to have serious business with losers?
Positive thinking - one of the components of success. Or at least faith in him. You yourself build relations to yourself and to what you are doing. In my mind you're creating an entire world, which is then reflected by your own actions in reality.
What kind of world you want to see around you?
People
Surrounding people also have great significance. And they are inextricably linked with your inner sense of themselves and their business. Try in such critical moments surround himself optimistic and active people with a lively mind and a vibrant imagination. Because sometimes even the craziest ideas in the end turn out to be quite tenacious and give unexpected results.
Limited is closed to dialogue with the world of people who put pressure on you, criticize, and do not let go.
Look for mentors themselves among those to whom you would like to be like. Learn from them, collect the required optimism, bit by bit, and then, perhaps, you yourself become for someone an example. And it charges optimism and energy even more!
Inspiration
Inspiration - is another important and strong factor. When we GASN, losing interest in the case, then goes out and the case and the surrounding stop believing in it with you. How investors can believe in success, if you talk about it with extinct eyes? How can you believe, not believe in anything the creator ?!
Perhaps you need a little break. Read books, watch movies, attend conferences and communicate with people who inspire you.
You never know where you will visit a new brilliant idea for your business - to the next smart conference or during sunset contemplation.
goals
A clear goal, or at least a clear direction - is half the battle. You can not create anything if you do not have the whole picture. One common, great goal - it's good, but you have to work out ways to achieve it, put her steps. Gradually overcoming step by step, you will be able to achieve a result. Only goal is to be present. You have to understand what really want and what you will be a failure.
Anne struggled with anorexia for 14 years. Its main goal was - to survive at any cost and to begin to live a full life. Of course, his own life is not going to any comparison with the "I want to build a successful business", "carry the business in another country with the best conditions" or "provide for themselves in old age."
You have to really believe in your endeavors and know exactly what you want to achieve as a result. Even the creation of a simple application for photo or video recording can help as a result earn enough money not only to provide reliable back in their old age, or ability to fund other projects, but also serve greater goals - to help children with disabilities and etc.
durability
Persistence - this is the fifth and final element. You do not have to retreat, even if everyone is against you, and in the near future you will suck his paw a few months, or even more. At this time, it is difficult to do without the support of the closest, and without faith in your success. But if you insist on and believe, then they will believe.
If you know that everything has to happen, you have to defend his point of view and his creation. Even if you have to slow down, do not throw or turn aside, and continue along a small but sure steps.
This five tips from a man who was on the verge of death (even because of their stupidity), but she had the strength not only to overcome this, but also to move forward, proving his own example, that the impossible is only in our with you heads.
And a small note from my inner skeptic - sometimes more sober view of things still will not interfere, because if you lose your head - you will lose everything.