27 important rules of modern etiquette
Tips / / December 19, 2019
We present you a selection of the actual date of rules that everyone should know and respecting other people.
In today's world do not know the rules of etiquette - then spit into the wind, putting himself at the same time in an uncomfortable position. Unfortunately, many perceive compliance with certain norms and rules of communication as something shameful considering it a sign of highbrow aesthetes who quite far from real life. However, these people forget that rude and tactless behavior can cause the same reaction in response.
In fact, the basics are quite simple etiquette. This culture of speech, common courtesy, a neat appearance and the ability to manage their emotions. Both concerns of both men and women.
- If you say the phrase: "I invite you" - that means, you pay. Another formulation: "Let's go to a restaurant" - in this case, each pays for itself, and only if the man himself offers to pay for a woman, she may agree.
- Never do not come to visit without calling. If you have visited without warning, you can afford to be in a bathrobe and curlers. One British lady said that the appearance of the intruders, she always puts on shoes, a hat and take an umbrella. If a person is pleasant to her, she exclaims: "Ah, well, I just came!". If unpleasant, "Oh, what a pity, I must go."
- It is not necessary to invite the girl for a date through SMS messagesand, even more so, to communicate well with her.
- Do not place the smartphone on a table in a public place. By doing so, you show how important in your life plays a communication device, and how much you uninteresting occurring near the annoying chatter. At any moment you are ready to leave the useless talk and once again check the tape in Instagram, answer an important call or distraction, to find out what went fifteen new levels to Angry Birds.
- Man never He does not carry handbags. And female coat it takes just to get across to the locker room.
- Shoes should always be clean.
- If you go with someone else, and your companion greeted unknown you man should greet and you.
- Many believe that sushi You can only eat with chopsticks. However, this is not entirely correct. Unlike women, Sushi men can eat with your hands.
- Do not engage in idle chatter on the phone. If you are in need of spiritual conversation, it is better to meet with the other eye to eye.
- If you are offended, do not meet the same coarseness, and, moreover, to raise your voice to the person offended you. Do not fall to his level. Smile politely and move away from the ill-mannered conversation.
- On the street a man has to go to the left of the ladies. The right can go only soldiers to be ready to carry out a military salute.
- Drivers need to remember that in cold blood spray passersby with mud - blatant incivility.
- A woman can not shoot indoors hat and gloves, but no cap and mittens.
- Nine things should be kept confidentialAge, wealth gap in the home, prayer, the composition of the drug, a love affair, a gift, honor and dishonor.
- When he came to the cinema, the theater, a concert to go to the places to be only face-to-sitting. The first is a man.
- A man enters the restaurant is always firstThe main reason - on the basis of the maitre d 'has the right to draw conclusions about who is the initiator of joining the institution, and who will pay. In the case of the arrival of a large company - part of the first and pays one from whom came the invitation to the restaurant. But if at the entrance visitors are greeted by the doorman, the man is obliged to miss the first woman. Then beau find empty seats.
- Never should not touch a woman without her will, Taking her hand to touch her during the conversation, push it or take the hand above the elbow, unless you help her to enter the vehicle or get out of it, as well as across the street.
- If you are someone calls out rude (for example: "Hey, you!"), It is not necessary to respond to this challenge. However, you do not need to lecture and educate others during the brief encounter. It is better to teach a lesson in etiquette by example.
- Golden Rule using perfume - moderation. If in the evening you could smell her perfume, you know that everyone else has suffocated.
- Bred man will never allow himself to not display properly respect for women.
- The presence of a woman man smokes only with her permission.
- Whoever you are - Director, Academician, an elderly woman or student - entering the premises, greet first.
- Observe the privacy of correspondence. Parents do not have to read the letters intended for their children. Spouses should do the same with respect to each other. Anyone who rummages through his pockets in search of close notes or letters, comes very ugly.
- Do not strive to keep up with fashion. It is better not to look fashionable, but well than fashionably and bad.
- If you are forgiven after an apology, do not again return to the insulting question and ask forgiveness again, just do not repeat such mistakes.
- laugh too loud, noisy communicate closely looking at people - insultingly.
- Do not forget to thank the family people, relatives and friends. Their good deeds and the willingness to offer help not the obligation, and the expression of feelings, worthy of gratitude.
American actor Jack NicholsonI am very sensitive to the rules of good taste. How to transfer the plate. Do not shout from one room to another. Do not plow the closed door without knocking. Skip forward lady. The purpose of all these countless simple rules - to make life better. We can not live in a chronic state of war with their parents - it's stupid. I carefully watch your manners. This is not some abstraction. This is all understandable language of mutual respect.