12 False Beliefs It's Time to Let Go
Miscellaneous / / July 28, 2023
Checklist for those who want to make their life better.
1. "I'm missing something to be happy"
Any mistakes and difficulties carry a message. But some people skip it because they are too busy berating themselves and worrying about trifles.
Being upset about what you don't have is a waste of what you have. The happiest people are rarely the luckiest. Their life may not have all the best, but they take the best of what it offers them.
Many give up precisely because they focus on what they lack and how much more needs to be done to achieve the goal. Instead, focus on what you already have and what path you have already traveled.
2. "My dreams won't come true"
Don't let people who have given up on their dreams lead you astray. The best thing you can do in life is listen to your intuition.
Don't be afraid to take calculated risks and don't choose safer and easier options out of fear that things won't work out. If you keep doing what you are doing, you will keep getting the same result.
May your dreams be greater than your fears and your actions speak louder than your words. Do something every day that you will thank yourself for in the future.
3. "I'm stuck in relationships with those who hurt me"
Life is too short, so take care of yourself. If someone consistently mistreats you, set boundaries in your relationship out of respect for yourself. It will hurt, but in time it will pass.
Often we leave not because we show weakness, but because we show strength. And we end the relationship not so that others realize our worth, but because we ourselves finally understand that we deserve better.
4. "I wasted my time on a failed relationship"
Some people are not destined to stay in our lives for long, but that doesn't mean that relationship with them was a waste of time.
When we don't get what we want, we find out what we don't want. We rarely lose friends - we just gradually find out which ones are real. Do not demand from others to make room in their lives for you. Because those who understand your value will do it themselves.
Remember that when we are doing well, our friends know who we are, and when things are bad, we know who our friends are.
5. "Never gets better"
There is no person who perfectly copes with every difficulty in his path. It would be contrary to human nature. Humans are made to be upset, sad, burned, stumble and fall. Because it's part of life to face problems, learn to deal with them, adapt to them, and eventually solve them. It is this process that shapes us into the individuals we become.
When you find yourself in isolation and it seems to you that you will never find a way out of the darkness, imagine a caterpillar in a cocoon with wings growing. Just because you're having a bad day today doesn't mean tomorrow won't be the best day of your life. You just have to get to that "tomorrow".
6. "Failure is bad"
Sometimes you have to fail a hundred times before you succeed. No matter how many mistakes you make and no matter how slowly you move towards goalsyou're still way ahead of those who don't even try.
Don't dwell on one failed attempt or you'll miss out on opportunities for everyone else. Think of all your ideas that didn't work as stepping stones to one that will. And remember: failure is not falling down, but the unwillingness to rise and continue to act.
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7. "All good things will come to me"
In many ways, we are who we choose to be. No one will come and save us, we must save ourselves. No one owes us anything, we ourselves must earn everything we need. Nobody knows what we want, and nobody but us will regret what we didn't get.
Therefore, you should not leave the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket and wait for someone else to provide you with an ideal life. Become its own creator. The more you take on responsibility for your past and present, the better you will be able to create the future you aspire to.
8. "My past determines my future"
We've all made a mistake once. We were deceived, we were used, we were forgotten. We took bad treatment that we didn't deserve. But we should not regret it, because the wrong choice teaches us a lot. We understand who can be trusted and who cannot. We learn what true friendship is. We learn to see when people are lying and when they are being sincere. We find ourselves and begin to appreciate truly wonderful people when they appear in our lives.
Although some things cannot be glued together and some people will never apologize, now we know how to do it better next time.
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9. "I don't need to meet new people"
It sounds tough, but you can't keep everyone you've ever befriended in your life. People and priorities change. While some relationships develop, others fade. Appreciate every opportunity to make new connections when old ones naturally fade away. Trust your decisions. Be prepared to enter uncharted territory and boldly explore it when you start new ones. acquaintance. Perhaps one of these people will change your life forever.
10. "I can't live without those who left"
If someone came into your life and changed it for the better, and then left you for whatever reason, don't resist the change. Be grateful that your paths crossed and that you were happy together, even if not for long.
Life is change. People really come and go away. Some come back, some don't, and that's okay. If someone left, this does not mean that you need to forget about those who remained nearby. Appreciate what you have, and remember what was with a smile.
11. “I’m not ready for change because I’m not good enough yet”
No one feels 100% ready when a great opportunity presents itself to make a difference. Because most of these opportunities force us out of our comfort zone.
So stop beating yourself up for not achieving something yet. Start accepting it. If you think you're not good enough today, it means you want to be a better person tomorrow and love yourself completely so you can live a richer life. This means that you are determined to heal your heart, expand your horizons and share something with the world. You are ready. You just need to get started.
12. "I have something to lose"
At the end of our lives, we are unlikely to regret what we did and what we did not do equally strongly. So it's better to remember the past with the thought "I can't believe I did it!" rather than with the thought "If only I did it." It is much easier to live with a mass of mistakes that have taught us something than with a mass of regrets and empty promises to myself.
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