How to write a cool profile on Tinder and increase the chances of a pleasant acquaintance

Should I follow the tips when compiling a questionnaire?

In general, any questionnaire can work, even if it is drawn up contrary to all the rules. After all, we only need one person for a relationship, not the attention from all Tinder users.

Although sometimes an unsuccessful questionnaire leads to the fact that people who theoretically could like us will pass by. After all, on dating sites, the first impression is extremely important. We are in contact first with the user profile, and then with the person. In real life, at the first meeting, we have a chance to take charm, correct unsuccessful wording during self-presentation, if the counterpart understands them somehow wrong. IN Tinder on the other hand, a person simply sees the profile and swipes left or right without much reflection, while we are just a photo and text for him.

Following some rules will help make the profile more pleasant and increase the chances of moving on to the conversation and showing off in all its glory. And it will work on any platform, not only on Tinder.

How to fill out a profile on a dating site

Choose a good cover photo

The first thing a person sees on Tinder is the main photo. It depends on her whether he will view your other pictures and read the profile description. Therefore, it is important to hook this picture.

The best choice is a portrait photo that clearly shows the face.

Many people think that this is too easy. You have to show your personality somehow. Therefore, as the title picture, they put an image where they ride water skis or stand on top of a mountain. At the same time, the photo was taken from the coast or the foot of the mountain, so that the person himself is almost invisible. You will still have space to share your interests. Show yourself now.

You do not need to select an image of the format "as in passport». On the contrary, it is better to choose a live photo where you are smiling or at least just relaxed. In general, there can be many options for a good picture. Therefore, for specifics, it is easier to note which ones will be unsuccessful:

• Selfies in a hurry. Such photos often show that a person quickly removed himself, if only there was something to upload to the application. This includes images of poor quality from cars, toilets of fitness clubs and just clubs, shots from home under the light of one chandelier. And they paint few people, because the image is not catchy, the front camera often distorts facial features, and bad light draws puffiness and wrinkles where they are not even mentioned. There is nothing wrong with selfies in and of themselves. Just watch out for a few things. Let the distance from the camera be normal, and the outstretched hand will not fall into the frame. Choose a direct angle, and not from above or below, look into the camera. Take pictures in daylight. Frame the shot so that it includes more than just the face: a portrait photo allows you to use the entire upper body.
• "Mysterious" photos. What people just do not use in order not to show themselves: medical masks, motorcycle helmets, curls playfully thrown over their faces, photos from the back of their heads, twilight. Alas, usually the first conclusion when you see such a picture is not “Wow, how interesting”, but “The person is clearly married».
• Group photos. This is not an Intuition show. How can you guess who you are.
• Photo in full growth, especially from afar. It's almost impossible to see the face on them.
• Pictures from the past. People change over time. Just accept it and use actual images.

Make an interesting selection of photos

Tinder allows you to upload 10 pictures. So at this stage, you can already frolic and showcase the images that you like. Here you feed the tiger, but you jump with a parachute - everything is fine. But it would be nice to add a couple more portrait options to make it clear that you and you really look like that on the title card.

Photographs can be made to work better for you if you identify your interests and select images in accordance with them. For example, a picture from the gym is good if you are really regular. doing. If you were there once with a friend for company, the picture can create a false impression of you and attract the wrong people.

At the same time, keep an eye on the variety, let it not be pictures just for quantity. For example, if a person adds 10 images from one photo session, this, of course, makes it possible to view him from all sides. But he only talks about the fact that once he was at a photo shoot.

Fill in the block of interests and intentions

Tinder has a built-in block with on-duty questions. You can simply answer them and no longer touch on these topics in the description. Potential partners will immediately see how you feel about alcohol, whether you want children, whether you believe in astrology and so on.

Do not ignore this section. It will help to painlessly and simply put up a barrier that will cut off those who do not suit you categorically.

Think about the description

This is the case when brevity is not the sister of talent, but its evil stepmother. Nevertheless, the description allows you to learn quite a lot about a person. Here are some rules to help.

Write about yourself

Tinder has hundreds of verbose profiles that say literally nothing about a person. And here it’s still better to tell about yourself: what you are fond of, what you love. Do not turn the description into a biographical note, reveal yourself through preferences and interests. Someone may choose you because he likes the same thing, and someone else wants to learn more from you about your favorite thing.

Designate what you are looking for

Someone is ripe for a serious relationship, someone is looking for a partner for periodic meetings, someone does not know where they can roll his goodbyes. There are no ignoble or condemnable goals in this regard, you just need someone with whom you will coincide. But for this it is better to indicate intentions.

Write carefully about a potential partner

Categoricalness can repel, and even those who fit into your criteria. Serve greatly affects how you look in the eyes of potential matches. For example, compare how the same thing can be written in a man's profile:

1. "I like slim girls with a love for active sports, walking and traveling."
2. "If you're a fat woman who'd rather lie on the pizza couch than go for a walk, move on."

From the second option, even a girl with a love for walks would prefer to leave as quickly as possible.

Be positive

It is clear that people have a past in which they were burned. Therefore, sometimes it is tempting to throw out your pain in the description. There are hundreds of questionnaires in which there is no information, except something like this: “There are no more good women / men left in the world, because all of you ...” All this is better attributed to psychologist, not on Tinder.

People with whom you do not know yet are not to blame for anything in front of you. They can be different, including not very good ones. But your cry from the heart will not guide them on the "true path", it's just annoying. But it can push away someone attractive.

Don't be overly smart

In the questionnaire, as in the first meeting, most, if not all, want to seem better. Some choose a complex epistolary path for this, line up long sentences in the description, pour in terms, and express themselves in a florid manner. It looks artificial, because Tinder is a space for informal communication. So describe yourself the way you would describe yourself verbally friends and to make the phrases understandable without rereading.

Allow the first step

Sometimes it’s hard for a match to write first because it’s not clear where to start. Use the banal “Hi, how are you?” many do not want to, and it is difficult to maintain such a dialogue with a stranger. Therefore, you can leave hooks in the questionnaire that will be a reason to contact you. Easiest ask something. For example: “If I were offered to watch only one series for the rest of my life, I would choose“ Clinic ”. And you?"